artofmanliness.com has a really good podcast episode that addresses cheating for both genders using the power of SCIENCE!
https://soundcloud.com/artofmanliness/179-the-science-of-cheating-how-to-prevent-it-and-deal-with-infidelity
https://soundcloud.com/artofmanliness/179-the-science-of-cheating-how-to-prevent-it-and-deal-with-infidelity