I turned my computer back on for the sole purpose of writing this thread. Over the weekend, someone I know, who I'll call A, upset me. I deleted her phone number so that I wont talk to her, and I deleted her friend's phone number as well because it is clear that neither of them really want to associate with me. I'm about to delete them from my facebook friends as well, which means that they are lower than the 50 or 100 people on facebook that I'm friends with but whom I don't really know. I guess I added those people because they all have potential, but now these two girls don't have any potential as friends. My question though is this: is it alright for me to just cut people out of my life like this, by severing communication and then ignoring them? I've read that it is an INFJ thing to do, and I used to think that I don't do it, but now I'm realizing I'm actually one of the worst people when it comes to this. I will cut someone out of my life over a minor statement that I took personally and never look back. The reason is that it is so painful to try to deal with these things. If they don't want me in their life, the I don't want to be in their life. Okay, I feel better. I just went through facebook and my cellphone and deleted people. I don't have any friends from high school, and if a friend is someone you hang out with occasionally, I never had any friends in high school. I've tried to remove myself from that setting completely. I also hate the way my family lives, so that was a major factor in deciding to go to school over 1000 miles away. This is messed up. What would you do?