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Who you want to be versus who you are.

Seems like a lot of us aspire towards ENTJ, most curious. :]

This makes me giggle, since as an ENTJ.... I was actually thought of to be aspie/heavily introverted as a kid because I always kept to myself.

This test is funny though.. it said my ideal was ISTJ and I am ENTJ. I quite like being me.
 
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ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||| 36%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Extroversion |||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||| 43%
Intuitive |||||||||||||||||||| 86%
|||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Sensing |||||||||||| 46%
|||||||||||| 46%
Feeling |||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||||||| 66%
Thinking |||||||||||||||||| 76%
|||||||||||||||||| 76%
Judging |||||||||||||||||| 76%
|||||||||||||| 60%
Perceiving |||||||||||||| 53%
|||||||||||||||||| 76%
ideal type - ENTJ, real type - INTP

I took it twice. I dont agree with results. I would say- ideal type- ENFP, real type INFJ
 
<div align="center"> <table style="color: black; background: #eeeeee" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" > <tr> <td> <div align="center">Jung Ideal vs. Real Test<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="4" style="color: black; background: #dddddd" > <tr> <td>Introversion</td> <td width="50">||||||||||||</td> <td width="30">50%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">60%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Extroversion</td> <td width="50">||||||||||||||||</td> <td width="30">63%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">50%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Intuitive</td> <td width="50">||||||||||||||||</td> <td width="30">63%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">60%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Sensing</td> <td width="50">||||||||||||||||||</td> <td width="30">73%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">56%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Feeling</td> <td width="50">||||||||||</td> <td width="30">36%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">56%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Thinking</td> <td width="50">||||||||||||||||||</td> <td width="30">80%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">63%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Judging</td> <td width="50">||||||||||||||||||||</td> <td width="30">90%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">66%</td> </tr> <tr> <td>Perceiving</td> <td width="50">||||||</td> <td width="30">30%</td> </tr> <tr> <td></td> <td width="50"><font color="#808080">||||||||||||</font></td> <td width="30">46%</td> </tr> </table> <table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="2" width="100%"> <tr> <td width="100%" bgcolor="#dddddd"> <div align="center"> ideal you |||||| real you <font color="#808080">||||||</font></div> </td> </tr> </table> ideal type - <b>ESTJ</b>, real type - <b>INTJ</b><br> </div> </td> </tr> </table> <a href="http://similarminds.com/p_jung.html">Take Free Jung Ideal vs. Real Test</a><br><font size="1"><a href="http://similarminds.com">personality tests by similarminds.com</a></font></div>


Fascinating! I really love this link, thanks so much for sharing Satya!!

I scored INTJ- but I am definitely an INFJ, I'm just trying to get more in touch with being a thinker. I've scored INFJ countless times, but the last time I took the test I scored 1% T- which in my eyes doesn't really count. Besides, I know I am a feeler, and its horrible. I think I do try to idealize myself as being more outgoing, but I've also begun to get very comfortable with being introverted. My shadow is definitely extraverted though, and it likes to come out once in a while.
 
ideal you |||||| real you ||||||

Introversion
|||||||||||| 43%
|||||||||||| 46%
Extroversion
|||||||||| 40%
|||||| 26%
Intuitive
|||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Sensing
|||||||||||| 50%
|||||||||||| 46%
Feeling
|||||||||| 40%
|||||||||| 33%
Thinking
|||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||||| 60%
Judging
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Perceiving
|||||||||| 40%
|||||||||| 36%

ideal type - INTJ, real type - INTJ

Interesting. While I like who I am I expected to see a higher preference for Extroversion and Perceiving. Especially Perceiving; I'm way too structured and cautious.
 
ideal type - ISFJ, real type - INFJ

Introversion |||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||||||||||| 86%
Extroversion |||||||||| 40%
|||| 16%
Intuitive |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||||||||| 70%
Sensing |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||||||| 60%
Feeling |||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
Thinking |||||||||||||| 53%
|||||||||||| 46%
Judging |||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Perceiving |||||||||||| 43%
|||||||||||||| 56%
 
ideal you |||||| real you ||||||

Introversion
|||||||||| 40%
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
Extroversion
|||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||| 26%
Intuitive
|||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Sensing
|||||||||| 36%
|||||| 30%
Feeling
|||||||||||||| 53%
|||||||||||||| 56%
Thinking
|||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||||| 60%
Judging
|||||||||||| 50%
|||||||||||| 43%
Perceiving
|||||||||| 40%
|||||||||| 33%

ideal type - ENTJ, real type - INTJ



This is actually the first time I've tested out as an something other than INFJ. Interesting.
 
ideal you |||||| real you ||||||

Introversion
|||||||||| 33%
|||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Extroversion
|||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||| 23%
Intuitive
|||||||||||| 46%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Sensing
|||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Feeling
|||||||||||||| 53%
||||||||||||||||||73%
Thinking
|||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||||| 56%
Judging
||||||||||||||||||80%
|||||||||||||||| 66%
Perceiving
|||||||||| 33%
|||||||||||||| 56%

ideal type - ESTJ, real type - INFJ
 
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Jung Ideal / Real Test Results


ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||| 36%
|||||||||||| 50%
Extroversion |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||| 40%
Intuitive |||||||||||| 50%
|||||||||||| 46%
Sensing |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||| 50%
Feeling |||||||||||| 46%
|||||||||||| 50%
Thinking |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||| 50%
Judging |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||| 50%
Perceiving |||||| 23%
|||||| 23%
ideal type - ESTJ, real type - ISFJ
 
I want to be Gath, ruler of the universe and small places.

Oh wait this is something different. ...
 
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ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||||| 50%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Extroversion |||||||||||| 46%
|||| 20%
Intuitive |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||||| 56%
Sensing |||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||| 50%
Feeling |||||||||||| 46%
|||||| 26%
Thinking |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||||||| 66%
Judging |||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Perceiving |||| 16%
|||||| 30%
ideal type - ISTJ, real type - INTJ
 
Jung Ideal / Real Test Results


ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||| 36%
|||||||||||| 50%
Extroversion |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||| 40%
Intuitive |||||||||||| 50%
|||||||||||| 46%
Sensing |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||| 50%
Feeling |||||||||||| 46%
|||||||||||| 50%
Thinking |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||| 50%
Judging |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||| 50%
Perceiving |||||| 23%
|||||| 23%
ideal type - ESTJ, real type - ISFJ


You lost your n too!
 
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This is bizarre - I used to type exclusively INTJ, but recently I'm all over the place- although when I answer carefully I come up INFJ/INTJ.
Going now to look into these types.

edit: looked, ISTJ is my husband's type (duty fulfiller) - we irritate the hell out of each other. Can't stand his rigid adherence to rules and traditions. That isn't my ideal self!
 
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ideal type - ESTJ, real type - INTJ
 
ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Extroversion |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Intuitive |||||||||||||||||| 76%
|||||||||||||| 60%
Sensing |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
Feeling |||||||||||||||||| 76%
|||||||||||||||| 66%
Thinking |||||||||||||| 53%
|||||||||||||||| 66%
Judging |||||||||||||||||||| 86%
|||||||||| 36%
Perceiving |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||||||||| 76%

ideal type - INFJ, real type - ESTP

Bahaha dayumm so different~
 
Cute and interesting. But Ive been in "hell" as much as anyone can be and I can tell you this isnt even close.
 
ideal you |||||| real you ||||||

Introversion |||||| 23%
|||||||||||| 50%
Extroversion |||||||||||||||||| 80%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Intuitive |||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||| 23%
Sensing |||||||||||||||||| 73%
|||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Feeling |||||||||||| 43%
|||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Thinking |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
|||||||||| 36%
Judging |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Perceiving |||||||||||| 50%
|||||||||| 36%
ideal type - ESTJ, real type - ESFJ

type ideal real type behavior
I -8 0 quiet, private, few friends
E 9 4 outgoing, expressive, many friends
N 5 -8 random, mysterious, non linear
S 7 10 sequential, factual, practical
F -2 10 emotional, passionate, selfless
T 12 -4 willful, stoic, self reliant
J 6 1 planned, regimented, orderly
P 0 -4 spontaneous, playful, fun


My boyfriend is ESTJ. I would like to be more like him, he's like me but more logical and a lot nicer.
 
Took this again 'cause I'm bored as hell and was PMSing last time I took it heh


ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||| 40%
Extroversion |||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Intuitive |||||||||||||||||| 76%
|||||||||||||||||| 80%
Sensing |||||||||||||||| 70%
|||||||||||||| 60%
Feeling |||||||||||||| 60%
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
Thinking |||||||||||||||||| 73%
|||||||||| 33%
Judging |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
|||||||||| 40%
Perceiving |||||||||||||| 53%
|||||||||||||||||| 76%
ideal type - INTJ, real type - ENFP

L0l so different from last time
 
ideal you |||||| real you ||||||
Introversion |||||||||||| 43%
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
Extroversion |||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||| 23%
Intuitive |||||||||||||||||| 73%
|||||||||||||||||| 73%
Sensing |||||||||||||||| 63%
|||||||||||||| 53%
Feeling |||||||||||||| 56%
|||||||||||||||| 63%
Thinking |||||||||||||||| 66%
|||||||||||||||| 66%
Judging |||||||||||||||||| 76%
|||||||||||||| 56%
Perceiving |||||||||||| 46%
|||||||||||||| 60%
ideal type - ENTJ, real type - INTP

I've done some INFJ/INTP tests, one said I'm INFJ by 1% over INTP.
I've also read some articles to help me out, but I never got it. I'm visionary- I envision myself as Mahatma Gandhi, or someone making a speech at a UN assembly. I know ha ha. But I can't help but also equally agree, that I'm also very curious~ which I understand is an INTP trait.
The first one I've ever got was INFJ and I've stuck with that, I feel I resonate with it, but yeah, who knows.