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Oh, there is certainly some pornography that is disgusting. (Things involving geriatric coprophages, for example.)
 
Oh, there is certainly some pornography that is disgusting. (Things involving geriatric coprophages, for example.)
Yes, I agree with you regarding illegal pornography. To clarify I was referring to legal, regulated pornography and it's relation, if any, to the video.
 
[video=youtube;l-84anmYGv4]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=l-84anmYGv4[/video]

INFJs love this guy.

I remember being in a similar situation myself years ago as the guy. I was in a fairly quiet area in university when I noticed a girl crying nearby. After a bit of the moral debate as to whether I should approach her or not, I decided to approach her and ask if she was alright. She flashed a quick smile and said she was and I didn't want to pry so I let her be and went back to where I originally was. It still bothered me a bit that there wasn't really anything i could do and didn't want to push her into opening up either. In the end, I had some spare napkins from the lunch I had earlier and offered them to her. Again, I got another smile and a nod of thanks and I left it at that. Never saw her again but it still makes me wonder a bit on her situation and how she fared after that.

As to the guy in the video, it could have gone either way depending on the circumstances and such. It's a fictional video but depending on the situation, she could have freaked out on him instead and we'd be watching a completely different video. ^^
 
Is it safe to assume infj women cry in public as a type of mating call?
 
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NO! And that video is ludicrous, it makes me puke.
 
NO! And that video is ludicrous, it makes me puke.

Yeah, what she said. o_o I think if a guy did that I would actually kind of want to punch him. I wouldn't have the balls to do it but...I would want to.
 
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I would rather die than cry in public, and I generally get uncomfortable around such untamed emotions. To me that is to be dealt with privately. My mom started crying in front of her grandkids today, and i said, "get it together, man!" She laughed hysterically. :D
 
I like all types - but I love INFJ's!! They get me on a really deep level. :D
 
I would rather die than cry in public, and I generally get uncomfortable around such untamed emotions.

I used to think that way before. Sometimes it just feels nice to let it out too, albeit in a more subtle fashion. I remember one time after leaving the hospital after visiting my dad and had a window seat on the bus just letting the tears flow as I stared out. I didn't make a sound as I did it, but it did help me cope with my emotions at the time. Usually I'll find a private place for those kind of situations.

And again, the video doesn't really get into why the girl was crying in the first place. If she had a boyfriend that cheated on her and this guy approachs her the way he did, a swift punch
 
[video=youtube;l-84anmYGv4]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=l-84anmYGv4[/video]

INFJs love this guy.

I thought that video was kind of cute, but he came on way too strong in my opinion and would probably just scare away most INFJ I know. That might work on an ISFP though. :smile:
 
We like..guys that understand us, will be real men, and are willing to give us space/show us love when we need it.

Maybe that's a little bit of it.
 
Emo, and oh-so-sensitive types, but they would have to open up to random fits of intellectual conversation as well. xD
 
men with balls :pound:
 
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I want a NF guy. I think it just makes things easier. And they fit into what I want in a guy. I like softies and hate macho guys. I want someone who appreciates me for who I am, and understands me. That pretty much excludes 99% of all Sensors. And I want him to be sweet, romantic and cuddly which is probably hard to find in NTs.
 
Not sure how old this thread is, but oh well..

I want a NF guy. I think it just makes things easier. And they fit into what I want in a guy. I like softies and hate macho guys. I want someone who appreciates me for who I am, and understands me. That pretty much excludes 99% of all Sensors. And I want him to be sweet, romantic and cuddly which is probably hard to find in NTs.

Yeah, a sensor isn't gonna get you there.
 
I like introverts, generally. And guys who understand me because nothing is more comforting, I think.