What does this mean?

I think that it means that they are caring and compassionate. I know that if I knew someone that was not able to sleep I would be concerned about their health and happiness. It is hard to be happy when you are sleep deprived.

 

I would be concerned as well. I think as INFJs are the caring, worrying type and we even tend to think about things too much even if it's the small things in our lives. We care about people a lot and I would worry if one of my friends or someone I care about can't sleep because I'll be sure there's a reason behind it. Let him/her know that you're alright, so he wouldn't worry too much if it's just something there is no reason to worry about.

 

It means your an INFJ.

 

You might want to ask *why* your friend is worried about you. Sometimes we have premonitions about it, but sometimes we're just worry warts. Ask him/her for specifics and find out why.

 

Interesting question. I agree with Arbygil, you should probably ask the friend a little more about what's troubling them.

But i think the most interesting thing about this type (although i don't think it's limited to INFJs alone) is that there is a tendency to worry about the general welfare of people, especially those who are not necessarily close to them. There is a tendency to see others fully self-actualize and be successful. I think your friend is demonstrating a type of emotional leadership style.

 

It's one of those oddball ways I interact with people, I'll ask them about those things. Unfortunately, it gets reinforced that my career is one of those ones that frequently deals with worrying people.

 

When I'm concerned about someone I think about them, their situation, how I can help, what they can do - if that is worrying then that is what I do. Also, because of my attachment to other peoples emotions if I can find a way to ease their pain then my pain eases too.
It's nice sometimes when someone tells you not to worry and reassures you that they're ok.
Worrying isn't a problem too often for me; it's when worrying turns into brooding that it becomes destructive.

 

I usually only say Im worried when a friend is definitely not acting like themselves. And I dont know exactly what the problem is. We worry about everything but dont usually let on we do. Some of us anyway. Working too much can be just as destructive as drinking too much, getting laid and going to parties. Tell her what the problem is, she will listen. I get the feeling that you are running from a problem instead of dealing with it. That being said. She knows something is wrong and she really cares about you and wants to help.

 

This would be troubling to me as well.

It sounds like you need to confront your problems head on.

I'd recommend that you write down your dreams, no matter how awful.

You should start to see a pattern that might really give you some insight.

Feelings of fear or insecurity will take form as nightmares, and these things can be overcome.

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