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    There's not much of a story, he was just finally ready.

    I think the reason we waited so long was because it's been a long time since he's had sex and he was short lived, and knew that he would be, but was embarrassed about it. I didn't give him shit; it's understandable. I sympathize with the amount of pressure on men to perform a certain way.
     
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    There are *cough* strategies that can be used about that.

    Anyway, you fucked! Yaaaay *high five* :grinning:
     
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    I'm assuming it'll get better over time. I'm not sure how to approach a conversation like that I don't want to make anyone feel inadequate or judged and I feel like it's probably better if he researches things and takes initiative himself instead of me telling him? I mean that's a very vulnerable thing for someone to critique your sex performance and make recommendations. It's one thing if he's not doing something quite right I can instruct him gently but if it's his actual performance I feel like that's a lot harder to deal with. Get what I mean?
     
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    Oh man, this is great cause...so much implied here, beyond what @Lady Jolanda pointed out.

    Like: God can be found in a woman's vagina

    And I believe it. Women are so amazing in so many ways, it makes me believe that there IS a God after all. Lol
     
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    As long as he feels there's improvement that needs to be made.

    Some guys aren't aware of how best to move around a woman, and everyone is different anyway so senstive areas vary from partner to partner.

    Hint which areas are more sensitive for you so he at least knows what to focus on if he does do research.

    Also when you're a bit more comofrtable in the relationship you can open up about performance and areas to improve. Like you say, not after the first time but when you're both a bit more on the level.

    And for gods sake don't fake it too much. Boosting a mans ego is fine once in a while but honesty is important, especially if later you tell the truth because you want improvements.
     
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