I appreciate all of your guys' comments. I know. I try not to judge people and try to make them fit in my "ideal" world. my ideal world is where everyone is loved and accepted and happy. lol. but i understand what some of you are saying...that it's important not to be disappointed with people as they truly are. and most of the time i am not...until they hurt me or something, but that's a different kind of post that has nothing to do with the surface of things? anyway...cool 
