I've been wondering lately whether this is a common INFJ trait, to be paranoid about the intentions of others. It almost seems to me like we have a pretty good understanding of the things we could do to decimate others in the most emotional ways possible (most of us are usually too empathetic for this though I believe.) I think that having this knowledge of how we could do these things makes us suspicious of others and leads us to fear someone doing those very things to us. This is just my hypothesis on it anyway. So I'd like to know if there are any other INFJs out there that have some issues with paranoia, not in a "the governments out to get me" type way. But in a suspicion about the intentions of others and a feeling of needing to keep things guarded and in control?