Goatman I think you need own up to your position on this board so fair Your calling everyone else out and not holding yourself to the same standards. You are the one who is acting like hypocrite. And calling everyone else out for your errors is not acceptable.
So why don't turn your critical comments back at yourself. Becasue your showing me your unwilling to expect your own opinions or actions as being incorrect, ever. Stop dodging and disregarding peoples opinions. You seem to be a reasonable person so take a step back and realize how you appear to others. And your posts in that context.
Becasue all your are doing is showing your dislike for J's and more especially as NJs and its really wearing thin. If thats how your then fine. But if you want to post at least do so in a respectable way.
So get over it and stop acting like this. You came in and questioned creditability. You're unwilling to do anything more than call everyone else out and refuse to offer a solid defense.
And I and I'm sure others have enough of that.
I have no dislike of J or NJ here, where is this coming from? How have I acted like a hypocrite? I have stated so many times how well I have gotten along with INFJ and how I am trying to be more like INFJs.
How do I not have a solid defense? I have explained everything I have stated with backing ideas. I am not saying I am 100% right but at least I give reasons for discrediting people unlike your statement about me.
I seem to have two choices here
1)Point out that I did indeed claim my ideas were open to criticism and have you call me a hypocrite
2) Agree with you that I am a hypocrite.
You are trapping me here. I always gave people a chance to come back, I always tried to show I was able to change my view if an argument came up and that I was willing to listen to those arguments.
I am merely pointing out how ridiculous it is to start a thread about assumptions and then assume what types do it. It is obviously a bit hypocritical.
How can I make you feel better? What can I say to fix this? What do you want from me? I am willing to let you point out my mistakes, I am even asking you for more info on them.
How many people have done the same for me?
Just because I have confidence about this issue, doesn't mean I am not open to criticism and it doesn't mean I am arrogant.
You need to learn to treat people with more respect, especially when you come at them strongly like you have with me. This is starting to sound like a child's argument to me.
"You're a hypocrite"
"No you're a hypocrite"
"No you're a hypocrite"
etc.
Let's talk reasonably here, what exactly did I say, and quote me, to make you think these things about me, because I have more then explained my point of view, and in a way I thought was open minded?
"I am not trying to do this, I am sorry if you feel ganged up on. What do you think you are doing by posting this topic though? I was merely pointing out MBTI theory states that Js may make not take in enough info for their judgments and Ps may not make judgments when they need to. This is kind of counter to what you are stating in your original idea. I was trying to give you a different perspective, if you don't want it, that's fine, I respect that and I apologize."
"I am not trying to stereotype ENFJs or anyone else I was using them as a counterpoint to what you said."
"Let's allow people to make assumptions because they are human and let's forgive them for their mistakes. Let's stop trying to figure out why each other is incorrect and start trying to figure out why we are correct.
These are things we
(myself included) should all be trying because we aren't getting anywhere with our current method of communication."
I mean really, have you even read enough of my posts to make the claims you are saying? Do you really know me well enough to generalize, or make these assumptions? What I am doing is commenting on a particular post, not Von in general, I am not saying anyone is this or that, I am commenting on the ideas and values in the posts, and I suggest you keep your criticisms similarly focused because you really are taking it to a personal level here. I'll tell you if you want to that is fine by me, I will try my best not to take it personally and to reasonably respond, but please try and give me the benefit of the doubt in the future, especially if you feel I am not giving it to others, lead by example.
Thanks
