I had to start a separate thread and plus no one really talked about it when I asked so I'm asking again because I really want to know. I have been in deep, deep thought about this, about who I am allowing to manipulate me. Do we all let people manipulate us to some degree? Are we immediately aware of it, but then choose how we will deal with it? When do we know when it is dangerous, or on the other side, somewhat to our advantage? Do us INFJs allow ourelves to be manipulated? And if we are being manipulated, are we emotionally gullible or are there other darker reasons?