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    Well, I'd been knowing I had a Skype notification for a few hours but did not look at it until now. I've just been so tired today. It's terrible.

    Basically, I have a lot of people find my username and advertise random crap. Usually viagra. They must think I'm a dude or a really really ugly chick who cant get a man up--- I'm not sure which.

    But anyway, this is one of the advertisements I got:

    Needless to say...my question is.....do we really need to be cutting our lunch breaks short to have sex with other people when our spouses aren't giving us a little somethin somethin'? Don't we need someone who's going to give bona fide lovin' that's so good it makes them feel old? Alright, that one was a song lyric that I stole. But really...are things getting so open and free or----heaven forbid, desperate that we need a dating site to go to find a hook up when the person we're with doesn't give it? I guess communication goes out the window.
     
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    That sight reflects the fact that a certain proportion of people are deeply perverted.
     
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    It's easier.

    I don't approve, but I understand.
     
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    I don't know what I think about it really. I found it funny that there are solicitations for this website, but I've seen a lot of people behave in this way. To each their own. It would be terrible if something like that happened to me. I don't know quite what my thoughts would be when I found out what had occurred.
     
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    I'm not qualified to answer this: I'd much rather have a good lunch.
     
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    Me too, TLM, me too. I'm not qualified either! I just wanted others' opinions! I was...wow, blown away that I keep getting these adverts!
     
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    Maybe we could just recognize that there will always be some people wanting more sex than their spouses, and that many of those people find the drive more powerful than midday hunger pangs.
    And disease risk? Well, half the population is of below-average intelligence. No suprises there.
     
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    To each their own.

    Everyone has different wants and desires. As long as they are not hurting anyone in the process, they are completely entitled to have them, no matter how "perverse" they are. Lying or cheating is never acceptable in my my though, under any circumstance.

    I won't take the content of the email too seriously though - it's clearly just advertisement waffling.
     
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    Maybe pre-lunch hookups would be ok. You know, at least it would help you to work up an appetite, makin' mah peanut butter sammich taste that much sweeter.
     
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    The site address itself doesn't sound very save. It's like one filled with psychos and people usually locked inside the basement, waiting for their next victim....

    Now as per what the site symbolizes; well, maybe the allure of quick fornication beats the long-term benefit of a loving relationship, for them. I dunno. Maybe the relationship is broken but in those cases, why not broke it clean and then find singles, instead of making the water more muddy?

    Then again, maybe they're bored with the relationship. My Occam's Razor isn't very reliable these days.
     
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    Hahahaha, spot on mate, spot on!
     
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    I think it has to do with people not understanding what they really need. So many insecurities, trying to find happiness through hedonistic pleasures rather than trying to solve any actual problems.

    I blame ignorance/naivety, and society for egging it on, more than anything.

    This is in regards to people that cheat. If you are single, then that is your own choice. Just don't be surprised if you wake up with an STD if you do it often.
     
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  13. The Jester

    The site doesn't work.
    Damnit.
     
  14. The Jester

    I think everyone should have aids.

    [​IMG]
     
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    Yo pssstttt.....who wants to hook up behind the Mature Section tomorrow at lunch? We'll meet by the water cooler in The Lounge.
     
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    Lol. If I wanted to feel good about myself, clicking on to a domain starting with 'depraved' wouldn't be my first choice.
     
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  17. The Jester

    Depends. Will you be giving or receiving?
     
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    I just read your signature, I was just researching Albert Camus and the Myth of Sisyphus earlier today!

    Have you read it?
     
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  19. The Jester

    Nope, it's currently on my to-buy list.
    I have found a good site if you want to buy books cheap. (Plus, free shipping!)
    I'll post it on your visitor page.
     
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    Haha, you rock!

    Thanks.
     
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