Hey everyone, any experience with this? Could it work long term?
I think this combo could be heavenly, or the most dull relationship ever,.. depending on what you're looking foor when you start the relationship.
After lifes stormy tempests and being tossed about on boiling oceans, if ye get my drift,.. then, a person who shares your temprament, and values, with few incongruencies or areas of opposition, can feel like a beautifully safe and warm port in the storm.
If ye have'nt been thrown around enough yet on tempestuous and frankly scarey ole massive waves, then maybe it would bore you.
I know where I'm at.. an INFJ port in the storm would be delicious. In my humble opinion,
G. x
After lifes stormy tempests and being tossed about on boiling oceans, if ye get my drift,.. then, a person who shares your temprament, and values, with few incongruencies or areas of opposition, can feel like a beautifully safe and warm port in the storm.
If ye have'nt been thrown around enough yet on tempestuous and frankly scarey ole massive waves, then maybe it would bore you.
I know where I'm at.. an INFJ port in the storm would be delicious.
what are good matches for infjs newho?
There is a theory that says ENTPs are a good match for INFJs, but from what I have seen it's a good match for the ENTP but not so much for the INFJ. I only know of one INFJ / ENTP couple, and they have a host of problems from the personality clash. However, they claim they are very happy despite this.
In my estimation and experience, INFJs do best with other INFJs, ENFJs, INTJs, ISTPs, and possibly ENTJs.
INFJs and INFPs are very hit or miss. Sometimes they are great. Sometimes they are terrible. Sometimes both, and never anything in between.
what are good matches for infjs newho?
Yes, it could work, but I'd rather have some differences. I'd rather have an ENFP , its the "NF" I'd want to team up with , but the differences I'd want would be for her to be more vocal than I am, but not as judgmental as I am.
I can't speak for other INFJ's but I really enjoy ENFP's. They are different but still have the "visionary" within them. I can see myself being married to an ENFP and making it work.
That's what I'm saying vh I don't think I could deal with that kind of energy. I prob would have started a fight if she told me she loved me then flirted with another dude in my face.