Have recently broken up with an INFJ and I am an INFJ. It is long distance. We tried to go from 3 skypes a week and heaps of messages...to one Skype a week and really limited messages.
After 3 weeks we spoke and realised both felt in limbo and not broken up so we have now taken a proper break. It's rough as we were very close in terms of support for each other.
I know it takes time, but I am really not sure what to do to help navigate. In every other instance as an adult I have done the 'slam the door shut' thing referred to here.
It is getting old though and I think the door slamming is not healthy for mean and leaves unresolved guilt.
This person is lovely, possibly my first INFJ partner (so actually gets me) and I really want to have them in my life...previous couple of exes I did not even like as people on reflection.
Any guidance appreciated x
After 3 weeks we spoke and realised both felt in limbo and not broken up so we have now taken a proper break. It's rough as we were very close in terms of support for each other.
I know it takes time, but I am really not sure what to do to help navigate. In every other instance as an adult I have done the 'slam the door shut' thing referred to here.
It is getting old though and I think the door slamming is not healthy for mean and leaves unresolved guilt.
This person is lovely, possibly my first INFJ partner (so actually gets me) and I really want to have them in my life...previous couple of exes I did not even like as people on reflection.
Any guidance appreciated x
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