maybe i did got angry at some point but i chose to walk away and unconsciously did the doorslam.
I'm the same way. Most of the time it's definitely just a severe disappointment or complete loss of faith in someone or something rather than anger. I do get angry, though. And I hate it when I do. I'm usually in such control of my thoughts, my actions, etc. In anger-mode, I feel out of control, and spit fire and brimstone.I'm not sure if i had put it in the right category, please relocate if it's wrong heh
anyway, i was wondering, given that we feel things strongly, are INFJs capable of doing bad things? like, being vindictive or something of some sort. have you ever been angry that you wanted to just hurt the person whose hurt you or had angered you?
reason i asked is because... there had been so many instances that i should've been mad or rage in anger but i often feel disappointed more.. i can't remember a time where i have been angry.. lol i just feel it isn't normal when people around me is telling me that i should be fuming... you know?
This. Exactly this.I can get very angry about being taken for granted and used without consideration. I can also get angry when I see other people treated badly.
There are some wrongs that must be made right.