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How would you like to be seen by others?

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  1. AUM

    AUM The Romantic Scientist

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    I've always wanted to be seen as a calm, stable and non-disturbed individual. I would like to have all the answers to everyone else's problems with the ability to have a calming effect when others are in chaos. I would like be seen as the type of person who is able to have other people's trust without even me asking.

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    Well, at least that's how ideally I would like to be seen by others, but anyways, what about you? How would you like to be seen?
     
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    Maybe some of us would prefer to go unseen.
     
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    I'd like to be that approachable person who is wise but also fun. I want to be someone people feel that they can trust and be accepted by, if not understood. I want to be seen as a friend, and capable.
     
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    Trifoilum find wisdom, build hope.

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    This; too. Well, if I'm being seen as fun and sociable, more the better, but I want to stay in peace so let people come to me instead..
     
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    I would like to be seen as kind and approachable. I would like to be percieved as intelligent and Spiritual also. I want to be a what you see is what you get kind of person.
     
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    I like to be seen exactly as I am. Otherwise it's way too much effort.
     
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    I'm with Sandra :)
     
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    +!
     
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    As a fair, friendly and trust-worthy world dictator :)
     
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    +1
     
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    Yeah, I feel most of my grief in life comes from people thinking I am (or that I am thinking) something I'm not.
     
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    Ooo, that doesn't sound half bad Madam Friendly Ruler.
     
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    Skittles for everyone! :)
     
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    Agree. To be someone who doesn't need to be seen or known by others.
     
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    I'd like to be seen as someone whose every whim ought to be pampered.

    Build me a Tessla coil now!
     
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    AUM

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    Peek-a-boo, I see you :D
     
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    This^^^^ Exactly how I'd like to be seen by others. The only thing I would add is compassionate. Oh yeah, and sexy :)
     
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    I would like to be seen as my truest Self.

    Which is what people see.

    So no wish needed for me - such seeing is granted to each and every one of us every day - both as observer and the observed.


    cheers,
    Ian
     
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    Mind my asking, how is this granted to us?
     
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