[INFJ] Help needed: how to approach an INFJ?
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Believing you love someone you do not know is unhealthy thinking. Stalking is criminal behavior. Grabbing someone in such a way is not cute or romantic. Unwanted physical contact, especially when with your hands grasping them, is a physical assault and unlawful restraint. This can get you arrested.
The fact that this needs to be explained to you as unhealthy and inappropriate should tell you that you have a serious mental disturbance, and you need some sort of psychiatric intervention. And everyone on here who indulges your disturbing obsession needs to join you for a group therapy session.
The fact that this needs to be explained to you as unhealthy and inappropriate should tell you that you have a serious mental disturbance, and you need some sort of psychiatric intervention. And everyone on here who indulges your disturbing obsession needs to join you for a group therapy session.
OP listed their age as 28 upon joining (one of the first things I checked after reading the thread, but that info is now not listed on profile.) Then later said in numerous posts they go for younger girls and girls 10-20 years younger and won't date a 30 year old. And some people were still giving dating advice. Wat.
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Again, how did this post spread any kind of positivity? There’s a way to say things with grace, and I do not take kindly to your blanket statement about my mental health as well as that of the others that posted here....
Well now, I’d say he’s doing a fine job
sheeessshhh hahaha I had no idea something could spiral so quickly
You should read through the thread. I know it's a few pages long....
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Great observation there. 8 years old... I can only hope this was a math mistake on the OPs part.
Oh good you have no idea what you are talking about, thanks for your input.
I feel like it's like one of those math questions you'd get in grade school only wayyy creepier.
"If OP prefers girls who are 10-20 years younger, but will not date a 30 year old woman, how old is OP and wtf is going on here?"
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Honestly I was fine until ACD made a blanket statement about individuals giving inputs here, I did nothing to insult anyone and therefore did not deserve it.... thank you for your positive feedback on this matter, I know exactly the type of character you are now and I’m not impressed
I did observe that advice was being given despite this thread being filled with concerning details... (Which a lot of other posters did cover.)
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i fully fully respect that, it’s obvious you did read and do more research other than me just answering the original post, I just feel that the way you carried that message over was very hostile and I do feel that it could have been addressed in a better way with the individuals responding on this..
Age is not constant. When one person is 60 and another 40, age difference is not a huge issue. What I mean is acceptable age difference is varying depending on time. Another thing is that I feel dating 30-yo woman is taking a huge responsibility and you have to be already settled in your live (I think I said that before).
+ Update: INFJs are weird! :craycray:
This may sound really ESTJ of me... But why don't you get your affairs in order? Or are you just wanting to date high school girls until you feel you can work it out? (I'm just going to guess this person is in high school or fresh out)
Age isn't really a big deal once you get to a certain point. A 40 year old and a 60 year old probably have comparable life experience.