I like being visionary and ahead of the curve...so far,in fact, that it automatically seems to come with a keen sense of humility. It's hard to be full of onesself when one is essentially out-of-step.
Being able to make connections about greater truths has helped me be far more adventurous in life than I might have been otherwise. It's also helped me make tough life choices that have really panned out quite nicely in the large scheme of things.
I also got lucky in being able to use those INFJ skills in my job and to see a good measure of success from them.
I have a male co-worker who is INFJ (I hardly ever see him. Go figure!) but I thought I'd think about him because what I see good in him I might see about myself. What I like about him is his kindness and the fact that we can sit outside, enjoy the sun and say very little and yet have a wonderful relaxing time. It's nice to enjoy the company of someone without the pressure of having to be 'on'. I think maybe people feel that from me too, a silent connection, so that's a good thing.
+2!!!! People freak out when I dine alone. Why...I happen to enjoy my own company!!! If I ever meet someone I actually want to be around for a good long while, I might actually go on a date someday! Hasn't happened in 10 years, but ya never know!!
I have strong empathy for people around me, especially those who are weaker. I get drawn to the underdogs, I don't know why!
Most of the time, I'm pretty spot-on on what my friends are feeling and thinking...
When a friend of mine broke up with his fiance, I immediately suspected that she was seeing someone else. He didn't reveal anything. He barely cited that it was a mutual agreement to split up - although they just bought a house and car together(!). An ENTP friend asked me how I could be so sure that the problem lies with her. I don't know how I came to that conclusion, but I just knew. True enough, she was seen with another guy one month later...
I like the deep connection with the universe I can sometimes feel. Being able to get complete and utter fulfillment for a moment. I don't think it can happen to most other types as easily.
I like the peaks of joy and happiness I can get from being so sensitive. The fact that a smile in the street or a song can make my day.