This has been happening to me for years so I'm curious if this is just me or if it's common among INFJs. Someone catches your eye. You're curious. You contemplate possibilities. You start to become interested. You continue contemplating. Somewhere along the way, you mention your interest in said someone to a friend/family member. You get excited because by mentioning it to friends/family, it could lead to you actually doing something about your interest. The next time you see said someone, you're like, 'meh'. Interest is gone. wtf? I can't figure it out. Is this a defense mechanism that's automatically kicking in? Or am I just too damn picky and think, "I could do better" as soon as things go 'Oh that might be nice' and start moving towards 'Hmm, this could actually happen'. This is seriously irritating. Anyone else or do I just have some issues to work on?