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Ex Loves, let them go or keep?

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    Nothing good has ever resulted from my trying to stay in touch with my exes. But then, I'm not Jerry Seinfeld. :relieved:
     
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    I definitely share the same. However, it's only when I'm single do I have this problem. When I'm with someone I focus on them purely.

    While I know that moving on and letting them go is what should be done, I'm a total masochist with it. Anytime I see someone who reminds me of them (the great ones, not all of course) or two people who look so in-love I'm instantly brought back and it all surfaces. We live in a society where we're constantly reminded of such things as well so it's nearly unavoidable. To put it more simple, I can't just 'un-love' someone... and I have to be in the know if they're okay or not. With the only exception being, love tunnel-vision with another. And naturally, I'm deemed a stalker for wanting to know if they're okay if they don't share the same sentiments.

    This is precisely why I'm also very much worried or scared of wrongfully comparing any new relationships and traits to older ones I miss... It's always the good ones....
     
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