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ENTJs & INFJs- why is it always so uncomfortable?

Despite the fact that this old, I want to add something. Just ignore me.
So this ENTJ that is courting me keeps saying "I don't see how that is relevant to Me" For example; I will say I stopped getting migraines after my divorce. He was complaining of migraines. I meant that stress is a culprit. My comment seemed relevant to me. But he says that a lot. And I can't be figurative or metaphorical with him. He hates that. Responds poorly.
I bet in this case (old, I know) the person did lose respect. It's easy with them. But it's easy to lose our respect too.
Okay. Done bringing up old sh!t now.
 
"I don't see how that is relevant to Me"

Sly, devilish, it would seem that your suitor believes being somewhat dismissive sets a necessary tone.

Some folks just don't want any advice.
 
First of all...what?
This makes no sense.