I was intending to write a really long post, but I changed my mind after writing ~35% of it. People hate long posts, especially when they're few thousand words long. So instead I'm going to ask a question: what is your opinion and experience with ENFPs? Healthy ENFPs. My experience is that it's really easy to talk to them, they are fun to be with, they always have something to talk about, they're engaged in what you're talking about, enthusiastic, optimistic though don't mind realistic facts, don't have as strong/defensive value system as INFPs, can talk about virtually anything (even really dark and twisted stuff), they're caring if you're important to them, they don't mind no sensor-stimulation (for example an ENFP I got to know recently is perfectly OK with taking long walks and talking, no need for a bar or bowling, etc.). He's a man and he's not homosexual, nor am I by the way. In case it's a woman, though, the downside is that they're really nice with everyone naturally and so people often misinterpret them as flirting, they expect something, some, especially a bit drunk people, even try to kiss them, which nor me nor (hopefully) the woman would want. Not to mention some people can get the wrong idea about my girlfriend/wife and some therefore wouldn't respect me either, or would try to give me unsolicited advice that she's flirting with everybody. Likely I'd also get jealous sometimes if she was really into some guy, which would be just talking in her mind, but from the side it looks like they're best friends for 30 years who haven'tr seen each other for another 10. Another downside with ENFPs is that they are always doing something and it's really hard to meet them (the dude I mentioned earlier, he barely has time to meet up, even though he isn't doing anything serious, same was with every other ENFP I knew, and they're horrible for online chats too - they leave after a few minutes). And speaking of a mate, independent if it's a woman or a man for you, I think the fact that they always want to get to know new people would be really annoying too, as as I imagine the ENFP wouldn't want to spend much time together.
So that's what I think of when I think ENFP + experience. What are your thoughts, observations, experience, maybe even corrections or comments on what I wrote?
So that's what I think of when I think ENFP + experience. What are your thoughts, observations, experience, maybe even corrections or comments on what I wrote?