How well do ENFJ and ENTJ get along?
Typical ENFJ and ENTJ will not get along. Te enjoys interacting with Ti, Fe enjoys interacting with Fi, and so in order for them to get along, the ENTJ would need to develop his Fi and the ENFJ his Ti. In other words the inferior functions of each.
Otherwise, you will see a clash of the titans, because they are both powerful characters. Ironically, they tend to come to the same conclusion (or result) while considering different factors and using different means.
Typical ENFJ and ENTJ will not get along. Te enjoys interacting with Ti, Fe enjoys interacting with Fi, and so in order for them to get along, the ENTJ would need to develop his Fi and the ENFJ his Ti. In other words the inferior functions of each.
Otherwise, you will see a clash of the titans, because they are both powerful characters. Ironically, they tend to come to the same conclusion (or result) while considering different factors and using different means.
I thought you were moving to Africa in like three weeks?
What are you talking about guys? I've met 2 ENFJs and I loved them both. One of them I really loved, as in fell in love with.
And we use ALL our functions, not just the first one. Not only do ENTJs use Fi, they use their eight function Fe too.
Getting along with ENTJs makes you less likely to be a INTP in my book. INTP and ENTJ have the opposite attitude to every function, which seems to make it almost impossible for one to understand/appreciate the other. We each most excel at a function that the other uses well but finds very frustrating, and aspire to the function the other considers most like evil.
I strongly suspect that a certain ex boyfriend of my INFJ friend is an ENTJ. She was deeply in love with him, but I could never stand the guy.
Getting along with ENTJs makes you less likely to be a INTP in my book. INTP and ENTJ have the opposite attitude to every function, which seems to make it almost impossible for one to understand/appreciate the other. We each most excel at a function that the other uses well but finds very frustrating, and aspire to the function the other considers most like evil.
I strongly suspect that a certain ex boyfriend of my INFJ friend is an ENTJ. She was deeply in love with him, but I could never stand the guy.
I don't mind ENTJs I guess. I understand where they are coming from, and depending on how they execute their ideals I can absolutely stand them. I appreciate their decisiveness, however they're need for control bugs the shit out of me. I love to be in control, but even I know how to not be in control sometimes.
what about infjs with entjs? Do they get along?
It is easier for Te to deal with Ti, because it is able to identify and recognize your reasoning and method of understanding and conceptualizations. It is able to distinguish your own framework of correct and incorrect. It may not agree with it or appreciate it (because it may not align with what the rest of the world deems as correct or it can't be proven with any tangible or empirical evidence), but it certainly has more common ground with it than Fe.
Fe has to do with seeing what th general public deem as valuable, right and wrong, where as a Te-dom derives those values from their own personal perspective (Fi).
Te: "This is the correct and valid thing to do according to the external facts taken into consideration."
Fe: "This is the accepetable and appreciated thing to do according to the external values taken into consideration"
ENFJs can be just as decisive and controlling. Those are common traits of the EJ (extroverted judging) temperament.
Why do you think they may clash so much? In a particular situation, each would be tugging in a different direction in the same manner.