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Do INFJs desire other INFJs?

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    I've never been attracted to fellow INFJs. It's like being attracted to a sibling. I do have many INXJ friends and quite a few friends who claim to be INFJs, but I'd type differently.

    Two of my (confirmed) INFJ friends and I have close, easy friendships. We understand each other, share easily, and can get into deep discussions easily after months of zero contact.

    My INTJ husband cannot stand one of them. They're friends, but he finds the person really annoying. I find this fascinating.
     
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    the short answer is yes. . I love the feeling of understanding that another INFJ gives off. There is a quiet knowing that sort of flows between the two of you. I worked on a small mental health out patient team and one of the therapist was an INFJ. We would sit in our morning meeting, not say a word, yet understand everything the other was thinking about the goings on. . that were usually chaotic. I still chat with her everyday and feel a life long connection. To understand another person's mood ad needs without them having or needing to explain would be a wonderful way to be. .
     
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    Yep.. Jedi communication - is what I call it. It only happens between another INFJ or INTJ for me, but it is heavenly. Subliminally connecting is very intense and very comforting as well as we don't ever really feel understood by other types. Well surely, not in the way we are by a fellow Ni-dom.
     
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    I don't think I know any INFJs apart from online. Where are we likely to meet them?
     
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    I matched with one on Tinder a week ago, I’ve seen a few others on there as well; but haven’t matched. We’ve had a few conversations and they seem to get really deep really fast. She seems very intelligent, sweet and caring.

    I’m really interested to meet her in person next week.
     
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    I imagine that the INFJ woman is something akin to "the girl all the bad guys want." Polite, reserved, that is, until Mr. xSTP lays the pipe.
     
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    I would imagine that and INFJ Woman would see right through xSTP’s BS. I would classify one of my friends as ESTP, my last GF was ENTP AF and she saw right through it. He tried to throw his game on her before we started dating and she called him a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Needless to say I was dating her less than a month after that encounter.
     
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