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The Jester
Okay, I've had this big crush on a girl for so long, and about 2 months ago I told her via a text message.
I just did it via a text message because she was going to be at a festival and I wouldn't be able to see her for a week, and the urge to get it off my heart was so big.
She turned me down, and a week after my text message, we met because she still wanted to see me and gave me the opportunity to talk about my feelings.
I told her what I thought about her, and told her how strong my feelings are for her.
She said that she was just not looking for a relationship that time, because she came out of a long one a few months before that.
I asked her if I'd have a chance of dating her when she wouldn't be in that situation, and she said yes.
Now I was wondering, should I ask her out again in the future, when she's ready for it, or did she just say that so she wouldn't hurt my feelings?
When I asked her about it, she said she was honest and I believed her, but I'm always a bit paranoid.
Did I blow my chances or do I get another try? Important: I may have burnt my bridges by saying I'd try to get over it.
But I just can't, because I know she is the right person for me.
I think she finds me a funny person (we had our own jokes, and at least she understood mine <.<), and she told me I wasn't like other guys she knew and I think she found me a bit intelligent. I just got this from what she told me, of course she could've been lying just to make me feel good. The intelligent and funny part were on different occassions, not after the rejection.
So do you guys think I'd have another chance of asking her out or did she just say it to make me feel better?
I can't get over it and still love her with my whole heart. Btw, we kept contact via text message, and I'm thinking about asking her for a drink soon.
I just did it via a text message because she was going to be at a festival and I wouldn't be able to see her for a week, and the urge to get it off my heart was so big.
She turned me down, and a week after my text message, we met because she still wanted to see me and gave me the opportunity to talk about my feelings.
I told her what I thought about her, and told her how strong my feelings are for her.
She said that she was just not looking for a relationship that time, because she came out of a long one a few months before that.
I asked her if I'd have a chance of dating her when she wouldn't be in that situation, and she said yes.
Now I was wondering, should I ask her out again in the future, when she's ready for it, or did she just say that so she wouldn't hurt my feelings?
When I asked her about it, she said she was honest and I believed her, but I'm always a bit paranoid.
Did I blow my chances or do I get another try? Important: I may have burnt my bridges by saying I'd try to get over it.
But I just can't, because I know she is the right person for me.
I think she finds me a funny person (we had our own jokes, and at least she understood mine <.<), and she told me I wasn't like other guys she knew and I think she found me a bit intelligent. I just got this from what she told me, of course she could've been lying just to make me feel good. The intelligent and funny part were on different occassions, not after the rejection.
So do you guys think I'd have another chance of asking her out or did she just say it to make me feel better?
I can't get over it and still love her with my whole heart. Btw, we kept contact via text message, and I'm thinking about asking her for a drink soon.