Context, man. He did not say what you think he said. He is referring to other people who believe a person should be able to control themselves because they believe it is not an illness.
Yes. I realized that just now. Now I feel dumb.
Context, man. He did not say what you think he said. He is referring to other people who believe a person should be able to control themselves because they believe it is not an illness.
It's ok. We make mistakes. Maybe we should let this chill out for a while though.Yes. I realized that just now. Now I feel dumb.
I think [MENTION=5375]chulo[/MENTION] is talking from a high-level, big picture perspective. In its very essence, it is as simple as changing the way you think or act. However, carrying out that big picture idea is vastly complex.
I could be wrong, but I think this is the disconnect that makes it sound like he's being very nonchalant or ignorant about it, but isn't.
It's ok. We make mistakes. Maybe we should let this chill out for a while though.
Psychologists learn a variety of methods to get a person out of a certain frame of mind. Speaking about problems and emotions in third person is a common method. But there are others as well.
In cases like psychosis, medication might be needed. But PTSD and BPD are not typically characterized by psychosis. I consider that a whole different topic.
Those with borderline are seen as on the line between psychos and neurosis. They flip back and forth; black and white. All good or all evil. Loyal best friend or worst enemy worthy of being destroyed.
C-PTSD is so different though it maybe be somewhat similar on the surface but underneath it's not the same... someone with C-PTSD might withdraw or be paranoid of intimacy to protect themselves from further abuse, they might get angered easily, but it's not technically splitting. Underneath what's going on underneath and what is causing the behavior is different.
This is what I don't get about it. How can you be on the line of psychosis and neurosis? It seems like you either are or you aren't. And then there are different levels of severity.
This is what I don't get about it. How can you be on the line of psychosis and neurosis? It seems like you either are or you aren't. And then there are different levels of severity.
This is what I don't get about it. How can you be on the line of psychosis and neurosis? It seems like you either are or you aren't. And then there are different levels of severity.
I'm not really sure I get it either...but they toe that line and slip back and forth. I've experienced being turned from white to black by a diagnosed borderline..their paranoia..their neurosis...then they slip right into some sort of madness and then come back.
From what I understand people can suffer from BPD for a long time and still be very successful and appear normal on the surface. A lot of people with BPD appear more "perfect" or "normal" than average and that is where a lot of the trauma comes from. A lot of them come from families that have "perfect family syndrome", meaning they are brought up to be exactly what the family wants them to be. They are often told that any sad or negative feelings they have are invalid. They store in emotions in order to uphold this perfect image. And they truly believe their emotions are invalid. I think there are a lot of negative/false stereotypes about people with BPD. People think BPD sufferers are completely psychotic and incapable of controlling any emotions. When in reality some of them are too good at controlling emotions and that is what causes the trauma. According to Wikipedia, 25% of people who suffer from BPD experienced no form of abuse as a child and there is a genetic predisposition to it.
CPTSD, which I didn't know about until just now, appears to be very similar. But people with C-PTSD appear to have almost always experienced trauma, hence the name. So perhaps a big difference between the two is that one is always caused by trauma and the other is not always related to trauma.
Also we need to keep in mind that there are financial incentives for diagnosing people with this stuff. People in the psych industry need people like this for business. So I suspect many of the people diagnosed with these disorders really just need to figure out life a bit but are being told they have serious disorders. These are not actual illnesses, they are just disorders. They are vague and so diagnosis is somewhat subjective.
Because they are cured differently. A disorder can be cured by changing a persons way of thinking. An illness can't be cured by simply changing a persons way of thinking.
I wonder if I had been suffering from C-PTSD from that situation I had described here one time. I was numb for a good month or two, then the flashbacks started up and I was having severe panic attacks randomly. I basically locked myself up in my apartment for the better part of 3 or 4 months. From what I could figure out for myself, all the intense feelings of terror I should have felt in the heat of the moment during the struggle came back, in the heat of the moment I they switched off.
From what I understand people can suffer from BPD for a long time and still be very successful and appear normal on the surface. A lot of people with BPD appear more "perfect" or "normal" than average and that is where a lot of the trauma comes from. A lot of them come from families that have "perfect family syndrome", meaning they are brought up to be exactly what the family wants them to be. They are often told that any sad or negative feelings they have are invalid. They store in emotions in order to uphold this perfect image. And they truly believe their emotions are invalid.
Also this. And talking about this would make a separate topic in itself, because so far media treatments towards people with mental disorders have really been unhealthy and invalidating. :|I think there are a lot of negative/false stereotypes about people with BPD. People think BPD sufferers are completely psychotic and incapable of controlling any emotions. When in reality some of them are too good at controlling emotions and that is what causes the trauma. According to Wikipedia, 25% of people who suffer from BPD experienced no form of abuse as a child and there is a genetic predisposition to it.
Agreed; whence why [MENTION=4871]CindyLou[/MENTION] said one is injury, while the other feels more of a sickness. (Although I see she made another disclaimer in later posts. Will get back through that)But people with C-PTSD appear to have almost always experienced trauma, hence the name. So perhaps a big difference between the two is that one is always caused by trauma and the other is not always related to trauma.
This, together with the thing about media portrayals of people with mental disorders appeared to be a common way of thinking that ultimately was based on a degree of unknowing. Basically what [MENTION=407]Soulful[/MENTION] said;Firstly, medical issues can also be disorders. Both of the disorders mentioned are mental illnesses trying to act like it's not a form of illness feels a lot like downplaying it to me. It's actually kind of insulting especially to people who suffer severely with this stuff.
It appeared that there is a sort of distinctive line between 'physical existence' that separates 'true illness' from 'faux illness'.However, it is significantly easier to de-legitimize the work done by psychiatrists because their field is the only one (in western medicine) which doesn't allow them to use tests as proof for diagnoses. A cardiologist does a quick interview and runs a series of EKG/ECG tests and bloodwork, an oncologist runs their own series, and so on. A psychiatrist must rely on communication alone.
That is interesting. I can see the possibility but I haven't read any proofs and such SO...Though the symptoms may be similar on paper, C-PTSD and BPD or more likely co-morbid (co-existing) than synonymous. Or another way to look at it is that C-PTSD is a symptom or indirect result of BPD. So most people suffering from BPD probably also exhibit C-PTSD, but not all C-PTSD sufferers have BPD.
That's also a tad similar with PTSD, isn't it? The feeling of cognitive / mental distortion and/or the lack of awareness... Being the prisoner and the torturer, the one who gives the sentence and the one who serves the time.For me, C-PTSD is from living an autistic life without ever knowing that I was autistic and what my problems were. I ended up creating my own prison. I am both the prisoner and torturer of my C-PTSD Hell.
I'm thinking this is the core of your whole statement, and if I may ever so cruelly dissect your argument and premises; even when these statements are true, there's still no way to directly infer that the conclusion you're drawing.I'm a business major. I see the world for what it really is; a business.
In my opinion these are modern problems that people develop from being poor at communicating.
Agreed to all of this.It's great that you knew you needed something else. It's also nice to recognize that your experience may not be everyone's experience, not because they're ignorant about their problem, but because their biology might be different from yours and their physiological needs or processes may require a different approach.
And the saddest part about it is how they de-legitimize people who are already struggling with something rather difficult in a world where mental illness is synonymous with stigma. Way to perpetuate.
[/quote]I think @chulo is talking from a high-level, big picture perspective. In its very essence, it is as simple as changing the way you think or act. However, carrying out that big picture idea is vastly complex.
I could be wrong, but I think this is the disconnect that makes it sound like he's being very nonchalant or ignorant about it, but isn't.
While I agree, that's still oversimplifying.
Not necessarily but the way he phrased it seems to imply that it is a matter of pure volition rather than a process.
What if I told you simply in your thread about comprehension that you must learn to comprehend? Would that have gone over well?
I don't see how that is any different at all from saying that you cure the flu by becoming well. Of course that's what you want to do but it says nothing at all about how.
Where do you believe thinking comes from dude? Some magic place?
If your mind is altered past a certain extent then any input which attempts to repair your thinking becomes warped since you need the thing which is in disrepair in order to absorb it in a meaningful way. Communication and perception are effected in similar fashion.
In other words it comes to a point where the tool you would need to make repairs is the one that is broken and it cannot fix itself because it is in disrepair. I think the recursive nature of this should be obvious even to a layman. If you aren't thinking right then how can you even start to?
I mean explain schizophrenia for example.
It's ok. We make mistakes. Maybe we should let this chill out for a while though.
I don't care that much. This thread got totally derailed though.
And I still stand behind all of my comments. Minus the one about it being classified as an "illness". I never said changing your way of thinking was easy, I think people just assumed I thought it was. And I still suspect there are lots of people who are misdiagnosed with these disorders.