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Charisma - What is it and have you got it?

A Guy said:
It's the source of it in my opinion. Facial expression the quick relay in conversation, the connection through words.
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Hmm, would being emotionally vulnerable be a necessity as well then? I was always wondering on that for a bit.

To be charismatic is to open yourself emotionally to others (I've read that before here) so there is a form of trust, while
standing strong enough in your own core self to not being overtaken...or something in that trend.
 
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dragulagu said:
Hmm, would being emotionally vulnerable be a necessity as well then? I was always wondering on that for a bit.

To be charismatic is to open yourself emotionally to others (I've read that before here) so there is a form of trust, while
standing strong enough in your own core self to not being overtaken...or something in that trend.
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The most sincere people are usually the most emotionally available so that makes sense in my mind.
 
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dragulagu said:
https://hbr.org/2012/06/learning-charisma-2

I only skimmed this
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In our research, we have identified a dozen key CLTs. Some of them you may recognize as long-standing techniques of oratory. Nine of them are verbal: metaphors, similes, and analogies; stories and anecdotes; contrasts; rhetorical questions; three-part lists; expressions of moral conviction; reflections of the group’s sentiments; the setting of high goals; and conveying confidence that they can be achieved. Three tactics are nonverbal: animated voice, facial expressions, and gestures.
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Aww shit, guess who's got charisma?
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A Guy said:
That's undoubted
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I don't think of myself as charismatic. I'm not, compared to a lot of people.
But I must hold some because I do tend toward these things.
 
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Sorry, I've made this thread all about me.
I'm an asshole.
Carry on.
 
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grimm said:
somehow coincidentally this one of the last things I read about you. you talking about ppls enigma. are you fascinated?
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Funnily enough we were talking about 'ambiguphobia' the other week and my discomfort around ambiguous or uncertain things. It's not a 'phobia', really, or 'distressing', so much as it is a need to uncover the reality or truth of things... and so enigmatic or 'unsolved' people do fascinate me, yeah.

It's a draw, and a polar draw because I'm not like that, really.
 
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This topic is very interesting and I feel like many have said it much better than I ever could. For me a charismatic person is someone with excellent emotional and social skills, having a strong presence, able to influence others at emotional level; also charming and magnetic.

I'm not charismatic the least bit, lol.
 
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Funnily enough we were talking about 'ambiguphobia' the other week and my discomfort around ambiguous or uncertain things. It's not a 'phobia', really, or 'distressing', so much as it is a need to uncover the reality or truth of things... and so enigmatic or 'unsolved' people do fascinate me, yeah.

It's a draw, and a polar draw because I'm not like that, really.
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