It is one thing to have tools it is another thing to know how to use them. I am trying to hone my intuition and judging skills because even as an infj who tries to remain an objective observer who "senses" things, our views can become clouded when dealing with people who are deliberately vague and deceptive. As humans, everything we say and do and everything we don't say and do says something about us. People can only change themselves. Some changes are natural because they are simply a result of getting older, but of course some changes are deliberate in order to gain an advantage or fit in to a new social situation. So in order to be more accurate, instead of paying attention to just the things that stood out in my mind I paid attention to everything including the history. I also remembered the famous quote: "If the evidence doesn't fit the facts check your facts." Therefore, there has to be some evidence that leads me to a conclusion as to not incorrectly analyze someone.
Here is the analysis, tell me what you would call this personality:
Evidence:
*Doesn't Believe in God or Spirituality no religious affiliation
*Doesn't believe in morals
*Doesn't take responsibility for actions. something or someone else is responsible and when cannot put blame on someone/thing else starts to generalize i.e. "society/human beings weren't meant to etc..."
*Unfaithful/disloyal/dishonest
*Believes people judge them solely on looks
*Constantly moves year to year month to month etc. (no actual home)
*Changes looks VERY frequently and matches whom they are around most
*Competitive
*Quits what they find to be challenging when they think they will "lose" probably fears they may look incompetent show their flaws
*Doesn't complete things
*Admittedly can't be by themselves, rolls into one relationship from another
*Foolhardy
*Exploitative
*Takes short cuts, skips necessary processes routine believes they are naturally good or can do it inherently
*Materialistic and has extremely expensive taste
*Uses big words when not necessary (and out of context)
* Seeks approval, attention, simpathy
On the Outside:
Charming, Charismatic, Humble, Kind hearted, charitable, Simple, wears cross necklace
Conclusion:
Anti-social, Narcissistic, Arrogant, Insecure, low self esteem
Here is the analysis, tell me what you would call this personality:
Evidence:
*Doesn't Believe in God or Spirituality no religious affiliation
*Doesn't believe in morals
*Doesn't take responsibility for actions. something or someone else is responsible and when cannot put blame on someone/thing else starts to generalize i.e. "society/human beings weren't meant to etc..."
*Unfaithful/disloyal/dishonest
*Believes people judge them solely on looks
*Constantly moves year to year month to month etc. (no actual home)
*Changes looks VERY frequently and matches whom they are around most
*Competitive
*Quits what they find to be challenging when they think they will "lose" probably fears they may look incompetent show their flaws
*Doesn't complete things
*Admittedly can't be by themselves, rolls into one relationship from another
*Foolhardy
*Exploitative
*Takes short cuts, skips necessary processes routine believes they are naturally good or can do it inherently
*Materialistic and has extremely expensive taste
*Uses big words when not necessary (and out of context)
* Seeks approval, attention, simpathy
On the Outside:
Charming, Charismatic, Humble, Kind hearted, charitable, Simple, wears cross necklace
Conclusion:
Anti-social, Narcissistic, Arrogant, Insecure, low self esteem
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