Alright, so I've noticed that a lot of the time in my friendships and likely if I had any relationships I require frequent breaks to recollect myself. And I'm not talking about a weekend alone or anything. I mean, breaks, somewhere from weeks to about three months. I tend to drift from friend to friend and if we have some sort of conflict that can't be resolved I sort of 'drop' being friends with them, and then about four months later I suddenly start thinking about them and think it would be fun to get together again. I've also seriously considered that if I ever get married [ though I have some foul opinions about marriage, haha] that I'd wanted to own seperate apartments or living places so that we could live together for a while and then split up when the being-together got to intense. I also am inclined to believe that such 'breaks' in relationships are healthy and should be done with even the most solid relationships. I think that people often get caught up in 'love' or 'us' and began to lose track of themselves and their own independence. Some people seem to think these breaks mean to see other people or give reason to cheat. But that's not what I'm meaning by break. I just think it's a good idea because I like my space and I'm sure my hypothetical partner would as well. So...Is this just me, or do some of us have similar views?