Oh dear, I got 59...THAT isn't good!
I admit that I'm very bad about holding grudges. I don't bring them up in arguments where they aren't relevant, but they still bother me on the inside. I'm very good about being respectful during an argument (I don't swear, or strike where I know it hurts.) but I can be stubborn about compromise. It depends on the issue if I'm willing to bend.
It's a good thing that I don't usually argue with anyone! If I know that a friend/relative and I don't agree on a subject, I avoid discussing it. For example, my dad is a homophobe and I hate it, but I know I can't change his mind, so I let it lie.