Are you attracted to older or younger people?

A couple of years younger than me.

 

Both. I like the ladies up to mid 30's and down to about 17... I like younger than that, but I don't let myself indulge.

 

It's always been people who were younger.

 

I'd prefer to date girls my age. but with this personality type its kind of hard to find someone genuine. I tend to attract married women 5-10yrs older then I am. I really don't like those situations but there is something about me that screams to older married women.

 

heee

 

So, this is common to the INFJ's?

 

Hah! not conciously at all. I have no idea why I prefer it actually.

 

I have always been attracted to men younger than I, but only by a couple of years. My husband is 4 years younger; I don't think I've ever dated anyone more than one year older. The average would probably be 3-5 years younger.

I've never been attracted to anyone significantly older than me and in fact was always kind of grossed out if a (significantly) older man hit on me.

ETA: Heh... and it's not because I want to be a father figure.

 

Guys that are older than me. :ml:

 

Oh, BlackKnight, I didn't know you we're into that kinda of thing.

Kinky or disgusting? I suppose it depends on who you're asking. :noidea:

But seriously yeah I've felt like a father or a big brother to most people I've been interested in, cause I've always wanted to protect them, sort of like how a dog would protect it's owner.

 

hey, that's like me. cougar-in-training, hahaha.

except my average would be like 2-4 years younger, and the oldest i've dated was a year and a half older.

i get mistaken for a 17 year old a lot. -_-

 

NO! NOT PEDOBEAR!

... ahem. that's understandable though, people right around your age. the weirdest thing about me is that the younger people i have been interested in are always extremely mature for their age.

i'm not sure what that means for me... :mcry:

 

I'm not too fussed as a similar level of maturity is more important but a big age gap in either direction would create a hurdle in my mind that I don’t think I would overcome.

 

My husband is four years younger than me too. And in the years leading up to my husband almost every person I dated was younger even if it was just by a few months. Not planned, just happened.
INFJ women are cradle robbers!!!