Does the thought ever run through you mind that you aren't quite human, because your thinking is so qualitatively different from others?
Yes. And I've tried very hard to express to other my thoughts, visions, ideas. I get the following reactions:
1) "I can't understand Alice. Do you know what she's talking about? She talks so fast."
2) "Smart people are the crazy ones". aka, "you're crazy"
3) "I don't know what you are talking about. All that I got from that is that you can't figure out how to express yourself. Do you want to have sex?"
4) "Yes" "no" "Let me change the subject because intellectual conversations are snobbish and you're just trying to make me feel bad about myself".
Sometimes I get genuine appreciation from someone who actually understand wtf I'm talking about can converse with me on it at that level.
It's not even that I'm that profound. I mean, sort of, I appreciate depth. But half the time (okay, one third of the time) I'm dead wrong, and I need someone to point that out. Arguing is nice. It doesn't have to be contentious...
I feel this way on a regular basis. It's hard for me to truly connect with other people because our way of thinking doesn't mesh somehow. Though people often feel connected to me, I cannot reciprocate.
Hm, I often feel that I am able to empathize with other far more easily than they are able to empathize with me. It's easy for me to appreciate someone else's experience. I think sometimes when I get into "deep" conversations with people they take this very personally and feel as if I'm really connecting with them individually, although this is not the case.
Ehh... this is so broad, I don't really know where to start or where to go with this one...
Recently I've wondered if the reason that I put so much effort into understanding people's experience is so that I will be able to keep them at arm's length when necessary. Supposedly Fe is about merging, and it's true that it is so difficult for one individual to truly communicate with another.... when I have met empathic, non-narcissistic people who were interested in me, I did feel frightened, and felt the necessity to establish a stable distance between us.