She's probably in the better place than we are anyway. Maybe it's odd but I often think so, there are no earthy problems anymore. I hate these estate issues, sometimes I wish I weren't mentioned in anyone's will but I know it isn't so because I'm almost the only one left, "almost" which means it's going to get dirty one day.
Btw I like your profile pic
You're welcome, JGirl. In our day and age not many people can go this far ! I hope you'll find a way to deal with everything, both - grieving and bureaucracy, it can be heartbreaking.