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    INFJs at wakes and funerals

    I definitely get this way too. Often I will have no emotions for the person who's died (probably because I don't know them super well). But I find it excruciating being around all those people who's sadness becomes my own. I usually sorta latch onto someone- it can be anyone, someone I don't...
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    INFJ dating an INFJ - Here my Story

    Sorry, @FreeSp1r1t, I didn't see your reply to me! I haven't been on in awhile. Yeah, I suppose the "fake" thing I mention, does have to do with the idea that people aren't trustworthy. But I'm not sure that that's all of it. There's many things that make me feel that people are "fake" and it's...
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    INFJ dating an INFJ - Here my Story

    Ah, I'm starting to wonder if I'm too picky as an INFJ. One minute I'll think someone is perfect for me, the next something so small about them as set off alarm bells that leave me with a sense that their fake. I can't shake the feeling that the people around me are fake. So in a sense I can...
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    Dating to long term or marrying

    Your first question... I'm assuming you mean because marriage today doesn't hold as much stock as it used to. You can just live with someone and it doesn't really matter- most people seem to only get married for the party...? Is that what you mean? Like is there any point to that? In that case...
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    Do you guys know what this means?

    I get that, @Anywhere But Here! But there are just so many layers to things that I really think it comes down to more things than just those two options. You can be so sure about the meaning behind what someone said, and it will be completely different. It's been happening to me a lot lately...
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    [PAX] "Men Need Sex"

    I agree that in some ways, people, not just men, need sex to be healthy. But I agree it also depends on the person. It does seem like maybe a higher majority of men "need" sex more than the majority of women, but there's still going to be plenty of exceptions to that, considering it is a pretty...
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    Something something relationship/dating rant.

    Welp, I feel ya. It sucks when people don't seem to put as much effort in as you. I personally haven't had a lot of experience with people in person, because I was homeschooled and don't know many people/guys. However, if we're talking dating sites, I certainly know your pain! Except guys on...
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    Do you guys know what this means?

    There's plenty of other scenarios as well though- not just those two things. One that came to my mind is her friends may have been teasing her that she likes OP, and saying that he likes her too because he was looking at her, and then she got defensive (does anyone remember what it's like to be...
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    [INFJ] Do you tend to "come on too strong" in relationships?

    Try not to say "I told you so" @Jet, @CindyLou, @Gist, @otherpeople... haha. If you're interested, I eventually texted him, but we never really texted back and forth like we had. There was never really an actual conversation- just maybe five texts back and forth and then nothing. This went on...
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    [INFJ] A time you saw your Intuition working?

    I'm sure there's probably a thread like this SOMEWHERE. But I couldn't see one upon quick glancing around. So... I don't know about you guys, but I don't get to see proof that my intuition is working, very often- AKA I don't know if it's right very often. For instance, I'll think "that...
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    Why do older women like to call people honey?

    I find it's not o much older woman that say "honey" "sweaty" (though there are a lot that do- my mum's no exception) etc, but rather, young adults that THINK they're old. I mostly see it used in a way that's very demeaning, borderline mocking, and yeah. It's kinda weird. Some of them I don't...
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    Forum crush guessing game. Part DEUX

    This is one of those times where I'm either sad that I'm not as active/known on this site, or I'm very very thankful.
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    The INFJ sex life

    Yeah, I get what you mean; I don't even really go on FB unless it's to talk to someone. I tend to friend family, friends, and people I want to get to know. A couple times I friended people I didn't know very well, and I tried doing that "how well do your friends know you?" survey- and I...
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    The INFJ sex life

    @Jet Two words: Facebook stalking. >:3
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    The INFJ sex life

    Actually, I can testify (or rather agree) that ISFPs are amazing lovers; the one I'm with or was with (hurts to be unsure but thus is life) seems to spend a lot of time researching techniques, and he's just the sweetest, most caring guy under all those fake wolf furs. Like gahhh <3