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You at your best, You at your worst

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How would you describe yourself when you are at your best, and also you at your worst?

For example,

at my best I am:

  • magnanimous
  • self-sacrificing
  • jovial
  • optimistic
  • adventurous
  • attentive
  • protective and caring towards others
  • both practical and creative
  • very good at cooperating with others and establishing harmony
  • effective/efficient worker and problem solver

at my worst I am:

  • tyrannical and destructive of everything around me
  • very low self-esteem
  • avoidant and reclusive
  • lazy
  • alienating towards others
  • anxious and phobic, OCD thinking
  • naive
  • unrealistic
  • deliberately vulgar and offensive to hurt others
  • loudmouthed
  • vengeful

Something to think about: The things that YOU consider are "best" about you are probably the things you value about yourself the most, no?

Lol this reminds me of johari/nohari.
 
Mm.. At my best
When I'm with my kids.
Silly/Dork
Optimisstic
Helping people
Taking care of people I love in my own way
When I'm inspired, creative, knowledge junkie, expressive in different forms.
When I can make someone feel happy
When I am open for new things.
Showing my friends new places to go
etc.

At my worst I am...

Judgemental
Unrealistic
Not motivated
Selfish
Awkward/Anxious
Cold/Numb
Procrastinating
When I blow up. It's not pretty. =/
 
At my best when I'm:

Creative
Playing Music
Listening to Music
A little buzzed
Happy
Crushing on someone
Making jokes that actually get laughs

At my worst when I'm:

Mad
Kinda depressed
Losing hope
feel stuck/am not bettering myself
cold/mean
 
Best mode:
Engaged in the real world
Creative
Rational/Reasoning
Grateful
Agreeable
Attuned

Worst Mode:
Avoidant
Fearful
Depressed
Hopeless
More depressed
Irrational
Up in the clouds
 
At my best:

Good attributes

At my worst:

Bad attributes.

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Best:
Calm
Insightful
Creative
Diligent

Worst:
Emotional
Depressing
Angry
Tired
 
Best:
Happy, joyful
Enthusiastic
Hard-working
Humorous, take-no-shit

Worst:
Paranoid
Uninsightful
Somewhat spiteful
Ruminative, lazy
 
At my best:

calm
helpful
thoughtful
funny (to those that like dry humor)
open-minded

at worst:

broken down emotionally (very angry and depressed at same time)
lash out at anyone trying to help me
focused on one goal and that is all
reclusive
unable to think straight
talking is a struggle
 
At my best:

confident
fun
friendly
good listener
optimistic
creative
outgoing
pleasant
thoughtful
open-minded
determined
focused


At my worst:
nervous
tense
worried
angry
careless towards others
depressed
rude
brash
insecure
bitchy
whining a lot
shy
 
At my best:
Determined
Hard-Worker
Thoughtful
Intelligent/Insightful
Creative
Optimistic
Honest
Helpful
Nurturing
Listener
Confident
Aloof


At my worst:
Judgmental
Closed-minded
Scatterbrained
Stressed
Bitter
Unforgiving
Manipulative
Quiet
Question myself
Need to be alone
 
At my best:

quiet; thoughtful; funny; caring; quick-thinking; determined (some call it "stubborn" to which I say "fuck you"); gentle; loving; creative. Maybe there are other things.

At my worst:

Complete bitch; scattered; IMPATIENT; bad-tempered; bitter; cutting; unsympathetic (most of the time, unless I have a break from whatever is stressing me); righteous hellion ready to go 15 rounds with Tyson. I don't know what else right now.
 
At my best I am:

Creative
Focused
Ambitious
Understanding
Kind
Curious
Quick witted
Generous
Perceptive
Exuberant

At my worst:

Cruel
Scattered
Lazy
Insecure
Dismissive
Avoidant
Selfish
Demanding
Excessive
 
At my best:
Creative
Optimistic
Caring
Hard-working
Humorous
Focused

At my worst:
Depressed
Overly-critical
Judgemental
Lazy
Stubborn
 
At my best:
Hugely empathic
Kind
Creative

At my worst:
Extremely moody
Unpredictable
Withdrawn/ very aloof
Hypercritical
Misanthropic
 
In relation to others:

At my best
Open
Laughing
Fun to be with
Joyous

At my worst
Indifferent
Cold
Distant
Closed off
 
at my best:
loving
caring
laughing
creative
energetic

at my worst:
intolerant
moody
purging/venting
lethargic
 
Best:

Thoughtful
Considerate
Understanding
Reasonable
Calm
Responsible

Worst:

Selfish
Anxious
Worried
Uptight
Easily upset, irritated or frustrated
Snappy


I'm forever moody so I can't really list it as a good or bad trait :D
 
niffer said:
How would you describe yourself when you are at your best, and also you at your worst?

For example,

at my best I am:

  • magnanimous
  • self-sacrificing
  • jovial
  • optimistic
  • adventurous
  • attentive
  • protective and caring towards others
  • both practical and creative
  • very good at cooperating with others and establishing harmony
  • effective/efficient worker and problem solver

at my worst I am:

  • tyrannical and destructive of everything around me
  • very low self-esteem
  • avoidant and reclusive
  • lazy
  • alienating towards others
  • anxious and phobic, OCD thinking
  • naive
  • unrealistic
  • deliberately vulgar and offensive to hurt others
  • loudmouthed
  • vengeful

Something to think about: The things that YOU consider are "best" about you are probably the things you value about yourself the most, no?

Lol this reminds me of johari/nohari.
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I can relate to this.
 
conflicted. sometimes i think my best is when i get myself into an emotional place where i can work really hard and achieve very creative things, but usually i can't sleep after that for two days, so maybe it's not my best. one of my bests is when i am serene and can allow ideas to flow through my mind without prejudice or judgment. when i'm around people one of my worsts is that i can become impatient and snappy, be abrasive and unfriendly, or bitingly sarcastic. when i'm alone one of my worsts is having had social overload and then indulging myself to absolute sensory extremes, of too much alcohol or forgetting to eat for example.
 
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