- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 1w2
For quite a while now, I haven't felt like an INFJ. I don't feel like ANY type. I have this profound sense of disconnection that I can't even articulate into words. I question the fabric of my existence even. This MBTI thingy has disillusioned me.
Examples:
I don't care much for people. I don't put other people before me- or at least I can't. Their feelings, even though they extract a response from me, don't move me to feeling empathetic towards them. I feel I can't express any of these feelings. I don't feel these feelings, which doesn't sound right but that's what it's like. I don't feel driven to help or nurture people. I don't take the time or initiative to find out how people are doing, to ask about their feelings or be interested in anyone.
Relationships exhaust me. I'm not "looking" any more and I feel pretty content with that. Insults relating to my lack of activity in that area are met with a "Yeah, whatever", when I would've found myself deeply insulted.
I don't have any ideals any more. I don't feel myself acting implicitly to an inner morality and I'm living the days as they come, just trying to get by as each task presents itself. I don't care much for the future because it feels pointless and a waste of time.
I don't think deeply any more. At Uni, we've had these very arty and intuitive exercises that I would've eaten up before, but I just don't connect with it. I see what I see. I can't concentrate. I can't concentrate on anything if it's not in front of me or I don't have a clear picture of it in my head.
What do you think? May I have your honest opinion, from your observations, on whether you think I'm an INFJ? In know I'm questioning the whole INFJ thing anyway but... I just need some outside opinions please. thanks.
Examples:
I don't care much for people. I don't put other people before me- or at least I can't. Their feelings, even though they extract a response from me, don't move me to feeling empathetic towards them. I feel I can't express any of these feelings. I don't feel these feelings, which doesn't sound right but that's what it's like. I don't feel driven to help or nurture people. I don't take the time or initiative to find out how people are doing, to ask about their feelings or be interested in anyone.
Relationships exhaust me. I'm not "looking" any more and I feel pretty content with that. Insults relating to my lack of activity in that area are met with a "Yeah, whatever", when I would've found myself deeply insulted.
I don't have any ideals any more. I don't feel myself acting implicitly to an inner morality and I'm living the days as they come, just trying to get by as each task presents itself. I don't care much for the future because it feels pointless and a waste of time.
I don't think deeply any more. At Uni, we've had these very arty and intuitive exercises that I would've eaten up before, but I just don't connect with it. I see what I see. I can't concentrate. I can't concentrate on anything if it's not in front of me or I don't have a clear picture of it in my head.
What do you think? May I have your honest opinion, from your observations, on whether you think I'm an INFJ? In know I'm questioning the whole INFJ thing anyway but... I just need some outside opinions please. thanks.