I would like to ask to you which functions could be involved in this ...
I often make actions and then if i think that i could have been hurting , disturbing , unfair i over-think about it ...
And i think what could others think about it , if they are disappointed.And i feel so much guilty, and imagine everything that others could have felt . I'm talking about little things too.
For example yesterday a virtual friend said to me that i made him feel accepted and that he felt that i was a really good person , and that i can make out of him his caring and sensitve part from the first moment he talked to me (he is INTP , he has some problems dealing whit emotions, feelings, values generally).
I aswered that to me he is a very very intelligent guy and that i enjoy talking to him because he is brilliant.Now, then i thought that maybe i should have said something more ''personal'' , human , that could show to him how human he is and sensitive , and that he could have felt again ''robotic'' as someone make him feel.So i added that to me he is a really deep person and sensitive guy even if he can't always show it.
Anyway i think again about it , i should have said it from the first moment , and i should have cut the first part. And this sometimes happen with random thing i made .
Another litte example... I talked to a teacher about a personal problem. SHe tried to understand and help me.After that , i didn't talked to her to say how i dealed with that issue.I have thought sometimes that she could have felt responsable in some manner , so i had to talk to her...Even if i thought so i 've not talked to her.SOmetimes i thought that i should have avoided to talk to der at all , because i gave to her a responsability(she was the only to know that thing) more exactly that she could feel that way (she is a sensitive person , a deep woman , i guess that it is possible...).And other random possibilities like that.
I often make actions and then if i think that i could have been hurting , disturbing , unfair i over-think about it ...
And i think what could others think about it , if they are disappointed.And i feel so much guilty, and imagine everything that others could have felt . I'm talking about little things too.
For example yesterday a virtual friend said to me that i made him feel accepted and that he felt that i was a really good person , and that i can make out of him his caring and sensitve part from the first moment he talked to me (he is INTP , he has some problems dealing whit emotions, feelings, values generally).
I aswered that to me he is a very very intelligent guy and that i enjoy talking to him because he is brilliant.Now, then i thought that maybe i should have said something more ''personal'' , human , that could show to him how human he is and sensitive , and that he could have felt again ''robotic'' as someone make him feel.So i added that to me he is a really deep person and sensitive guy even if he can't always show it.
Anyway i think again about it , i should have said it from the first moment , and i should have cut the first part. And this sometimes happen with random thing i made .
Another litte example... I talked to a teacher about a personal problem. SHe tried to understand and help me.After that , i didn't talked to her to say how i dealed with that issue.I have thought sometimes that she could have felt responsable in some manner , so i had to talk to her...Even if i thought so i 've not talked to her.SOmetimes i thought that i should have avoided to talk to der at all , because i gave to her a responsability(she was the only to know that thing) more exactly that she could feel that way (she is a sensitive person , a deep woman , i guess that it is possible...).And other random possibilities like that.