The Perfect Relationship

We'll keep working on it!! It's not like this is an entirely easy concept to grasp, and even harder, I think, to apply.

 

me + a red biplane + the open sky= perfect ^^

 

I've been in my current relationship for about 6 years. My relationship is rewarding, loving and trusting. He's my best friend, my soul mate and my confidant; he allows me to be me, and loves me just as I am.

Just when I think I can't love him anymore, something happens and I fall just a bit more in love with him.

If a perfect relationship isn't possible, this is probably as close to perfection as it's going to get for me. And I couldn't be happier.

 

UGHHH! I'm so pissed! I wrote a long-ass response and then got timed out by the forum! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

Ughhh....I guess I'll write another one...but later if I ever get around to it.

 

Two solutions, check the log in automatically box, or, write long responses in notepad, and then coply and paste.

 

:frusty: Ya think? :tsk:

 

Save your snark! I'm not afraid to abuse my power! :ban:

 

Hehe, it's all in good fun.

(Pweese don't ban me!)
:mlove:

 

aww you can't ban a face like that. ^^

 

heh, the amount he does crap, we wouldn't ban for THAT

 

hehe :ml:

 

love that it's perfectly perfect and sweet... ideal

 

There is no such thing as perfect, but a good relationship would be one where both parties care about the others well being and do what they can to make sure the relationship thrives.

I believe this is shown through many little gestures, such as checking in with him when he is not feeling well, cheering him up when he has a sad day, and confiding my true thoughts and feelings without shame. In the end, I just want someone that I can share a peaceful quiet moment with without the need for something dramatic. Flowers are nice, compassion is better.

 

I just made up my Mind some Days ago. I looked back at all my Relationships; I made a "List" with Stuff I really WANT and some I don't. Also Stuff I could compromise about. And I think I found the Mixture that would work for me. To make it simpler I picked a Person that is "well known" for People to understand better.
Now, for those of you who know Supernatural (TV Show), I would like a Guy who is basically like Dean. Why like Dean? Because we are very alike.
He is very fighty (not in a Fist-kind of Way, I mean more about Life), he is funny and sarcastic, he is caring, full of Passion and Life, he is restless...so very like me. I am impressed by People who are very honest and speak their Minds; also People who don't let Others manipulate them. He is a Rebel. I am too. And even if we possible wouldn't always have the same Opinion I would be fine with that. I like a good, hearty Discussion. I am sure it would never be "boring" and he is not shy so I wouldn't always have to be the "Entertainer" or ask him "Could you please do [whatever]". He would just do it.

I have always been the "strong One". My Job was it to back others up, to help them, to motivate and whatever else. People would admire me for my Strenght and they would stick to me. Sometimes I had to live my Life and also THEIRS. I could take it. But whenever I had a "Problem" or wanted Someone to back me up (listen to me, give me Advice), I never had Anyone to go to. I always felt like the Others are Way below my Strenght and it bothered me. That's why I figured I need a Kickass-Guy like Dean. I mean he is always taking Care of his little Brother and he is strong, even tho he feels like crying. It impresses me. It would fit.
I don't need much Help, but Sometimes I do wish I could be a Bit "weak" too. So much for the Reasons.

How I would express my Love...I have many creative and "random" Ways to do so. And I have much Love to give away. It's not that I am clingy, but when I really like Someone I like to show it to them. I am really sure it would all be really passionate. I would be very happy. So would he. I would make sure about it.

What is also cool is the Fact that I need my Space Sometimes and a Fuy like him does too. So I could do Something for myself (Hobbies) and he too. And Sometimes we could do Stuff together. I don't know, I could help him fix his Car or whatever and he could help me fix Dinner or handcraft Something with me. I am pretty open to that.

Uh, anyways. I guess I explained it well enough. Sorry for this "Novel Post". I know People normally like to read smaller Stuff more. =P

 

You're not touching the impala.

 

Yeah true. He didn't want Sam to help either so probably I can't. =P
Anyways, don't want to spam this wonderful Thread with any OT Comments only Insiders understand so *goes back to the Topic*

(Actually I am surprised Someone read my whole Novel)