I think "It" is like a battle
I think that everyone has an "it" factor, though most of them just don't recognize it, or if do, choose not to show it of.
@Siamese cat
kinda agree, because if people are constantly being defined as having "it" or not having "it", then it creates a sense inequality, where we're asked to think of and treat someone as better than others because they have "it."
Sure. And @tovlo pretty much wrote what I just wanted to add.
I think that just as tovlo said it, "it" is that inner beauty everyone has, more the combination of several qualities than one particular quality, that makes them unique and different than everyone else.
People for variety of reasons choose not show it off, though sometimes it just manages to slip past them and get caught by someone's observant eye.
I think that everyone has an "it" factor, though most of them just don't recognize it, or if do, choose not to show it of.
For me, I think I experience "it" when people are expressing their most natural self.
before I describe what i was thinking...i must get something clear-- the way you say it,the "it" factor is the idea that some people have this special quality that makes them stand out.
Is this a personal idea?
because when I read this I thought of it like the idea that *someone* believes they have a special quality that makes them stand out.
I thought of it like the strive for "uniqueness" <---that battle.
not a personal idea. . . interested in the way others would it define apart from the generally accepted meaning. The "it' factor is often something noticed by other people about someone. And based on the responses here, everyone has their own "it" factor. @Curiosilla
Yes-- in that case I will not theorise otherwise...
You know though-- somewhat I feel that the "it" factor is just held together by the body that bestows it. The "it's" aren't unique--the body and moderations iare--and that's what make's it an "it".
but it's not just one.
"It's" a combination.
Hmm.
By "it" factor, the OP does not mean "that which makes someone unique", but rather "that which makes someone stand out more apparently to many people", correct?
Charisma?
Because, when it comes down to it, many people have achieved things and have certain characteristics that are generally admired, but it seems like charisma must be present in an individual for their achievements to reach others.
Charisma seems to be the ability to communicate effectively, often without even having to resort to language.
And so it can be used to communicate "I am amazing and worthy of your attention" rather effectively. So effectively, actually, that it hardly seems pretentious.
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