The INFJ and "I love you"

[kakeli]

I have only told one person in my life I loved them, not including relatives, and I'm not sure whether I actually love some of them, or I am just obligated to tell them.

 

[Ghoulia Yelps]

I loved someone with my whole heart, and they rejected me.
The only person I ever really loved.
Love shouldn't be treated lightly.
My heart aches.

 

[say what]

Hmmm...I believe there are many kinds of love.

I freely and often give "I love you"s to my family and friends.

Romantic love...only once. It should be given with caution I think.

 

[NK278]

I have barely said it to people as a whole. I have told people I love you as a friend (and I emphasize friend) more often. I don't say it often except for a long distance thing I had and in that situation I did it more because I felt kind of helpless not being able to let him see it in my eyes (body language) and so on .. Not sure I could ever do that again. I like to be able express my affections.

 

[Baru]

I've been thinking whether or not to actually say the L-word for some time now.. but I think he already knows.

Sometimes silence speaks louder than words.