I need this shit explained to me. If you, or someone you know, believes in a singular/few person(s) who was put on this earth that is your ‘One’ I would really like to know what happened in your upbringing that has instilled this belief in you. Cause I just can’t even begin to wrap my head around it.
I am the youngest of 6 kids and the closest one two me in the line of six is 6 years apart from me. My parents were fairly old when they had me, mom was 37 I believe, and my father was at work more often than not. The way I knew they loved me is they bought me shit. Being an angst teen with problems they bought me more shit. Thus my ideal of ‘love’ was someone who would save me, marry me, work all day and buy me more shit. So I know where my issues of love stem from, I understand my ignorant beliefs vs reality and I now know what the reality is.
Coming from my background I have no fucking idea what it is to believe I have one, or a few ‘soul mates’ that are near to perfect matches for me. I don’t know what it is to think that waiting for them is a good idea. I don’t know what it is to think that saving myself for someone else will make me happy, because it wont. Sexual depravity just makes me very angry.
So please, please, please, tell me: What in your life happened to make you believe in soul mates.
I wont make fun of you for your thought process. I just seriously want to know.
I am the youngest of 6 kids and the closest one two me in the line of six is 6 years apart from me. My parents were fairly old when they had me, mom was 37 I believe, and my father was at work more often than not. The way I knew they loved me is they bought me shit. Being an angst teen with problems they bought me more shit. Thus my ideal of ‘love’ was someone who would save me, marry me, work all day and buy me more shit. So I know where my issues of love stem from, I understand my ignorant beliefs vs reality and I now know what the reality is.
Coming from my background I have no fucking idea what it is to believe I have one, or a few ‘soul mates’ that are near to perfect matches for me. I don’t know what it is to think that waiting for them is a good idea. I don’t know what it is to think that saving myself for someone else will make me happy, because it wont. Sexual depravity just makes me very angry.
So please, please, please, tell me: What in your life happened to make you believe in soul mates.
I wont make fun of you for your thought process. I just seriously want to know.