Social Orientation Inventory Quiz
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Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Injured Kitten
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 91% Other-directedness, 76% Attachment-desiring, 63% Emotionality, 59% Romance-seeking, 32% Range, and 34% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space. You are likely to be shy
The Injured Kitten
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 91% Other-directedness, 76% Attachment-desiring, 63% Emotionality, 59% Romance-seeking, 32% Range, and 34% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space. You are likely to be shy
The Nonchalant Lover
-Attent/Other/-Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 30% Attention-desiring, 63% Other-directedness, 35% Attachment-desiring, 58% Emotionality, 56% Romance-seeking, 42% Range, and 66% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Acute
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have high-intensity, short-term interactions
-Attent/Other/-Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 30% Attention-desiring, 63% Other-directedness, 35% Attachment-desiring, 58% Emotionality, 56% Romance-seeking, 42% Range, and 66% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Acute
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have high-intensity, short-term interactions
Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Limited Resource
-Attent/Other/-Attach/+Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 28% Attention-desiring, 81% Other-directedness, 46% Attachment-desiring, 51% Emotionality, 23% Romance-seeking, 60% Range, and 59% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Acute
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have high-intensity, short-term interactions with many different people, but you don't put much effort into keeping those people in your life. Living in the present and letting go when necessary appeals to you more than collecting long-term friendships.
Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Broad=interacts with many people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others
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Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)
Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)
Your Analysis (Vertical line = Average)
Attention-desiring Distribution
You scored 28% on Attention-desiring, higher than 5% of your peers.
Other-directedness Distribution
You scored 81% on Other-directedness, higher than 81% of your peers.
Attachment-desiring Distribution
You scored 46% on Attachment-desiring, higher than 15% of your peers.
Emotionality Distribution
You scored 51% on Emotionality, higher than 32% of your peers.
Romance-seeking Distribution
You scored 23% on Romance-seeking, higher than 3% of your peers.
Range Distribution
You scored 60% on Range, higher than 69% of your peers.
Secureness Distribution
You scored 59% on Secureness, higher than 52% of your peers.
The Limited Resource
-Attent/Other/-Attach/+Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 28% Attention-desiring, 81% Other-directedness, 46% Attachment-desiring, 51% Emotionality, 23% Romance-seeking, 60% Range, and 59% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Acute
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have high-intensity, short-term interactions with many different people, but you don't put much effort into keeping those people in your life. Living in the present and letting go when necessary appeals to you more than collecting long-term friendships.
Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Broad=interacts with many people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others
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Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)
Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)
Your Analysis (Vertical line = Average)
Attention-desiring Distribution
You scored 28% on Attention-desiring, higher than 5% of your peers.
Other-directedness Distribution
You scored 81% on Other-directedness, higher than 81% of your peers.
Attachment-desiring Distribution
You scored 46% on Attachment-desiring, higher than 15% of your peers.
Emotionality Distribution
You scored 51% on Emotionality, higher than 32% of your peers.
Romance-seeking Distribution
You scored 23% on Romance-seeking, higher than 3% of your peers.
Range Distribution
You scored 60% on Range, higher than 69% of your peers.
Secureness Distribution
You scored 59% on Secureness, higher than 52% of your peers.
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The Codependent
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77% Other-directedness,
61% Attachment-desiring,
65% Emotionality,
70% Romance-seeking,
45% Range,
40% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You latch onto other people, particularly romantic partners, to save you from the lameness and/or existential torture of being you. Sometimes this results in restraining orders against you. You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others.
The Codependent
[/h]+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
57% Attention-desiring, 77% Other-directedness,
61% Attachment-desiring,
65% Emotionality,
70% Romance-seeking,
45% Range,
40% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You latch onto other people, particularly romantic partners, to save you from the lameness and/or existential torture of being you. Sometimes this results in restraining orders against you. You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others.
The Cool Cucumber
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto your few friends. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you.
-Anna
-Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 29% Attention-desiring, 93% Other-directedness, 58% Attachment-desiring, 46% Emotionality, 43% Romance-seeking, 36% Range, and 65% Secureness.Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto your few friends. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you.
-Anna
Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Flea
Your Bonding Quadrant: CompanionateSummary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto friendships and sexual/romantic relationships with many different people. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests and/or lust than shared emotions for you. You are to likely to fear abandonment.
[h=1]The Enigma[/h]
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and not care much for others. Although you're open to interacting with many people, you don't get too close, and you don't put much effort (if any) into keeping particular people in your life. Interpersonal relationships are a very low priority for you. You may be hard to spot due to your type's proclivity for wearing black.
Sounds right.
-Attent/Self/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 41% Attention-desiring, 41% Other-directedness, 49% Attachment-desiring, 47% Emotionality, 30% Romance-seeking, 61% Range, and 53% Secureness.Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and not care much for others. Although you're open to interacting with many people, you don't get too close, and you don't put much effort (if any) into keeping particular people in your life. Interpersonal relationships are a very low priority for you. You may be hard to spot due to your type's proclivity for wearing black.
Sounds right.
The Casanova
You scored 50% Attention-desiring, 95% Other-directedness, 83% Attachment-desiring, 65% Emotionality, 69% Romance-seeking, 56% Range, and 56% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: Everyone within a five-mile radius knows who you are. Your high self-confidence and pushiness might scare some people away, but overall you have no problem making and keeping relationships. You're probably loud in bed.
You scored 50% Attention-desiring, 95% Other-directedness, 83% Attachment-desiring, 65% Emotionality, 69% Romance-seeking, 56% Range, and 56% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: Everyone within a five-mile radius knows who you are. Your high self-confidence and pushiness might scare some people away, but overall you have no problem making and keeping relationships. You're probably loud in bed.
[h=1]The Walden[/h]-Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 32% Attention-desiring, 60% Other-directedness, 63% Attachment-desiring, 40% Emotionality, 60% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 73% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially romantic partners. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you.
You scored 32% Attention-desiring, 60% Other-directedness, 63% Attachment-desiring, 40% Emotionality, 60% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 73% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially romantic partners. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you.
The Adapter
You scored 38% Attention-desiring, 77% Other-directedness, 50% Attachment-desiring, 75% Emotionality, 66% Romance-seeking, 61% Range, and 90% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have close, intense relationships–especially sexual/romantic ones–with many different people. Most social situations are comfortable for you. Your type is the most likely to be polyamorous.
You scored 38% Attention-desiring, 77% Other-directedness, 50% Attachment-desiring, 75% Emotionality, 66% Romance-seeking, 61% Range, and 90% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have close, intense relationships–especially sexual/romantic ones–with many different people. Most social situations are comfortable for you. Your type is the most likely to be polyamorous.
The Awkward Neighbor
+Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 57% Attention-desiring, 69% Other-directedness, 61% Attachment-desiring, 36% Emotionality, 38% Romance-seeking, 49% Range, and 9% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on other people. You make an effort to hold onto your few friends. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are likely to be shy.
+Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 57% Attention-desiring, 69% Other-directedness, 61% Attachment-desiring, 36% Emotionality, 38% Romance-seeking, 49% Range, and 9% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on other people. You make an effort to hold onto your few friends. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are likely to be shy.
Um...interesting????
[h=1]The Adapter[/h] -Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 46% Attention-desiring, 80% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 77% Emotionality, 75% Romance-seeking, 61% Range, and 79% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have close, intense relationships–especially sexual/romantic ones–with many different people. Most social situations are comfortable for you. Your type is the most likely to be polyamorous.
[h=1]The Adapter[/h] -Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 46% Attention-desiring, 80% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 77% Emotionality, 75% Romance-seeking, 61% Range, and 79% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have close, intense relationships–especially sexual/romantic ones–with many different people. Most social situations are comfortable for you. Your type is the most likely to be polyamorous.
[h=1]The Club Member[/h]
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others. You make an effort to hold onto friendships with many different people. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you.
+Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 56% Attention-desiring, 68% Other-directedness, 68% Attachment-desiring, 34% Emotionality, 46% Romance-seeking, 78% Range, and 63% Secureness.Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others. You make an effort to hold onto friendships with many different people. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you.
