When I am trying to accomplish a task and get interrupted. This is really bad when they interrupt me trying to explain their way of doing it. Well I need to attempt it my way first, gauge how well it worked, then I'll try their way. But leave me the hell alone during the first run through otherwise my entire point of reference is screwed, hell its screwed now cause you interrupted me!
This is all going on in my head, I tend to just grunt and shoo them away with my hands to try and maintain my train of thought. I tend to be pretty receptive to advice if I'm not already focused on something, breaking that train of thought really infuriates me though.
When people try to hug me I get very-very-very defensive.
I mean literally.
I curl into a ball.
Also, I get figuratively defensive when complimented, and often try to disprove it.
Why?
-I don't know! I've been given several reasons, either I'm insecure, wasn't hugged enough as a child, need therapy, or am secretly a small alien inside a touch activated suit.
-Because obviously all compliments are just insults dressed up with sarcasm, duh.
You want to know something messed up? I get defensive when people express an interest in me out of the blue. Like "What the hell do you want?" It's the oddest thing. You think my reaction would be one of flattery, but not so much. It's not insecurity, just distrust.
What makes me defensive is when someone suggests, implies or questions my decisions as if they were flight by night actions which came tumbling out of nowhere, when i've analyzed, overanalyzed, questioned, doubted, rethought, rethought, rethought them until the cows came home before i made that final call. It unnerves me . . .
And it bothers me because they feel that if you they don't see your reasoning, then no reasoning was involved in making the decision, because of course if it was a sensible decision, it would naturally make sense to them. *facepalm*
Won't be a lot of sex going on in that marriage I bet.Marry me.
But then if someone has the audacity to ask for justification for why I
No, and I've seen you, indigo and a few others mention that they just wont go in for fear of passing through that huge crowd. For me the fear of missing a class was always greater than my classmates. So whats it about the crowd that is so much more scary than failing class?Nope, no sex dove, but lots of rape^.^
I accept Jester! But we gotta be at least two metres apart at all times.
I also hate when my lack of socializing is brought up.
Anyone else feel defensive when they're late for a LARGE CLASS?