Can there be a 'destroy love songs through over-analysis' thread?
I find most unrealistic and unappealing. They summon my inner cynic. That said, here is one I like.
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IbxfykEw924&feature=related"]YouTube - Jon Brion ---- You Can Still Ruin My Day[/ame]
I do not know whether the lyrics are positive. They ring true, at least.