John K
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Ah - the flavour of your cheese is to be savoured carefully, a quick taste at first, then slowly to let the aftertaste develop. And with @SkarekrowI know I talk a lot of cheese, and eat a fair amount too![]()
Ah - the flavour of your cheese is to be savoured carefully, a quick taste at first, then slowly to let the aftertaste develop. And with @SkarekrowI know I talk a lot of cheese, and eat a fair amount too![]()
This. ❤
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God
BY KAHLIL GIBRAN
In the ancient days, when the first quiver of speech came to my lips,
I ascended the holy mountain and spoke unto God, saying, “Master,
I am thy slave. Thy hidden will is my law and I shall obey thee
for ever more.”
But God made no answer, and like a mighty tempest passed away.
And after a thousand years I ascended the holy mountain and again
spoke unto God, saying, “Creator, I am thy creation. Out of clay
hast thou fashioned me and to thee I owe mine all.”
And God made no answer, but like a thousand swift wings passed
away.
And after a thousand years I climbed the holy mountain and spoke
unto God again, saying, “Father, I am thy son. In pity and love
thou hast given me birth, and through love and worship I shall
inherit thy kingdom.”
And God made no answer, and like the mist that veils the distant
hills he passed away.
And after a thousand years I climbed the sacred mountain and again
spoke unto God, saying, “My God, my aim and my fulfillment; I am
thy yesterday and thou are my tomorrow. I am thy root in the earth
and thou art my flower in the sky, and together we grow before the
face of the sun.”
Then God leaned over me, and in my ears whispered words of sweetness,
and even as the sea that enfoldeth a brook that runneth down to
her, he enfolded me.
And when I descended to the valleys and the plains God was there
also.
That’s the way it has to be in any actual encounter. The poem reminded me of something that happened a few years ago that I’m still coming to terms with. Religions bring you a little way then shroud everything in veils - perhaps it’s more merciful that way. But I find my words are forced through a cheese grater when I talk about this stuff.
I know I talk a lot of cheese, and eat a fair amount too![]()
Ah - the flavour of your cheese is to be savoured carefully, a quick taste at first, then slowly to let the aftertaste develop. And with @Skarekrow![]()

This. ❤


Ah - the flavour of your cheese is to be savoured carefully, a quick taste at first, then slowly to let the aftertaste develop. And with @Skarekrow![]()
The researchers found that self-compassion — but not mindfulness — was associated with being willing to engage in valued activities despite pain, which in turn was associated with less depressive symptoms.
OMG - at least it was in a metaphor. Sorry about that -> *heads for delete button and a major introvert withdrawal*This was post 8000 btw!!!
Aaaaand it’s about cheese...about sums up the thread.
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OMG - at least it was in a metaphor. Sorry about that -> *heads for delete button and a major introvert withdrawal*
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We take ourselves too seriously - to the point of being mean to ourselves
Key to acceptance in those wordsBut very clearly I am working on self-kindness now...not sure when it shifted, but it’s what keeps coming up most recently.
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Key to acceptance in those words
We often, may be an INFJ thing, feel that we are being selfish when we take care of ourself and make it a priority. What's that saying regarding safe flight...put on your own oxygen mask first? Keep making yours a safe flight![]()
Oh I’m not deleting a compliment no matter how cheesy. Au contraire I shall start plotting more disruption at 10,000OMG, please don’t delete it!
It’s not as if each post must contain the wisdom of the thread...I like that it’s about cheese hahaha!
We take ourselves too seriously - to the point of being mean to ourselves...I’m purposefully trying to back off on that now...as part of the overall theme of pain acceptance.
It’s funny, but earlier as I was stretching...which can be particularly painful on certain days/times, etc.
Anyhow...as I was relaxing my body into the pain...and as I started to strip down the emotional response to the bare nothingness that it can be, the pain which is quite intense when I stretch out certain areas of my back, started to turn from a more encompassing pain, to an almost overwhelming amount of pain...
But as I focused solely on the pain and the pain alone...relaxing the other body muscles that automatically tense...feeling the frustration, the fear, etc. that is produced as secondary from the pain - I could also recognize and tear those down in, and in turn this intensity of pain that I was giving my attention to while letting all the other things pass me by - began to feel almost warm where the pain was.
As if...there was a sensory overload and it created a feeling of numbness and warmth...at least while I was holding a position and not moving, lol.
It was not unlike a TENS unit, if you have ever felt one of those - they create a sensation of pin and needles almost...but usually not as intense (though the one I have goes up high!), and as a result it blocks some of the pain signals from getting sent out...total sensory overload.
This felt oddly similar.
Now if I can just make it feel like that ALL the time, we’d be excellent!
Hahaha
Anyway...as I gain more control over certain emotional responses...it only serves to show me a new perspective on other emotional responses that are also affecting me in various ways...as if addressing one, made them all step forward, lol.
But very clearly I am working on self-kindness now...not sure when it shifted, but it’s what keeps coming up most recently.
For a quip on cheese, I would say you got your money’s worth of rambling.
Much love!

Key to acceptance in those words
We often, may be an INFJ thing, feel that we are being selfish when we take care of ourself and make it a priority. What's that saying regarding safe flight...put on your own oxygen mask first? Keep making yours a safe flight![]()
Oh I’m not deleting a compliment no matter how cheesy. Au contraire I shall start plotting more disruption at 10,000
My wife uses a TENS machine when things are really bad and finds it help quite a lot. She hasn’t needed it for a couple of years now thank goodness. Her consultant recommended acupuncture a couple of years ago and that’s been good. It’s helped with a touch of arthritis as well.
A problem with psychogenic pain is that introspection amplifies it so meditation is out when things are really bad. It’s the opposite that helped at the worst times - gentle extraversion. Routine housework, being read to, contact with close family, short walks. Little distractions from the hard wired self negativity. Taking things a day at a time, but persisting. The compassion and optimism has to come from the outside so it takes good caring to cover that - the two of us together just about add up to a pretty disfunctional one of you lol. I think a key insight for me is how no one thing works by itself - for her the medication is the bedrock and we go nowhere if that’s wrong, but it’s not sufficient. After that we need a whole set of other approaches which together make all the difference. This stuff comes in episodic crises with longish spells of stability (of a sort) in between so we don’t have the same sort of daily challenge you face, though it’s never ok.
Your thread is an inspiration to anyone suffering from severe chronic pain or caring for someone with it. The very best sort of gourmet cheese.
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