- Sep 28, 2008
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Isn't it a little fucked up to engage with someone on the condition that you believe they'll become different?
Isn't it a little fucked up to assume a person won't change over time?
Relationships happen/form generally because two people meet at a place of commonality, whatever that means for them.
So then, it's not the question of "will they become different" but rather, will you both be able to adapt to change.