INTJ bully or villain

An INTJ bully? That's odd, I always thought it was more likely for the INTJ to GET bullied. INTJs are the perfect stereotypical villains because they possess the Ni to forsee the future, and the Te to plan and execute their plans. This is quite different from a schoolyard bully who can use any number of processes. Though I guess an INTJ could be quite domineering should they be brought up that way -- inflexibility combined with competitiveness could work that way.

So you're pretty certain huh?

 

My dad is an INTJ and the man just knows what he knows and if you show any signs of incompetency in these areas then he will try to correct you.

Sort of bums me out to see a thread like this because from what I've observed over the years my dad has only wanted to see my siblings and I succceed. He's heavy on being efficient and so what I would perceive as him being a bully was really just his frustration over my procrastination, pettiness, and being over-emotional. Quite frankly, my dad also doesn't like a lot of people. He has the mentality that the 'masses are asses'.

I'm not sure if this assists you in your quest for finding out if INTJs are bullies or villians but I'm also not sure what specifically you're asking for. Feel free to PM me if you'd like.

 

An introverted school bully seems very unlikely, especially if he's picking on girls. You probably mistyped him.

Anyway there's no MBTI type for bullies, you should drop this idea. Do not search for faults in others - better think on how to take care of your friend. How is she doing now? Have any of our insights helped or at least clarified the problem? Did she go back to the first caunselor?

 

I don't know about that...

MBTI Temperaments most likely to bully:
ENFP
ENFJ

ESTJ
ESFJ
ESTP
ESFP

ISTJ
ISTP

 

Where do you get all that from, Shai?

Anyways, I would guess that INTJs are too disinterested in other people to bother with bullying. Probably mistyped the guy.

 

You asked why INTJs are bullies on the INTJ forum and they banned you?

Not all INTJs are bullies. Some are quite nice. Some appear to be bullies to us because they will sometimes ruthlessly cut down your thoughts and damage your sense of self, but that seems to be a habit some of them fall in to.

I know there are nice INTJs. My college roommate for next year is INTJ, and he is a great person.

I'm sure there are bullies of every type though. It is really something you should attribute more to the individual than the individual's type.

 

Of course it isn't her fault. But the counselor is also right - you cannot change other people (the aggressive boy) if they do not want to change themselves. He will resist it and just tease your friend more. And you might never understand his true motives for doing this either.

The only way to deal with the situation would to defend yourself. INFJs are naturally good at organizing people - your friend should actively ask for support from her classmates. People will stand for her.

 

Some intjs vehemently believe in their system of logic, and will crush anything that is in opposition of it. Usually the immature intjs. I am, of course, excluding intjs who just don't understand feelings. Maybe it's some weird bonding ritual.

 

I know 2 very nice intj's 2 jerky ones and 1 grey one (he has his moments of being really mean without knowing it)

 

*Backs away from the S types* lol jk

 

Am I the only one who is thinking (but loathe to actually suggest) publically knocking the guys lights out?

 

I'm not a bully and never have been. I hate to say you likely mistyped the bully. INTJs like myself, rarely bother anyone unless the person we are bothering has something we want. See to be honest, our time is extremely valuable, and anyone or anything that does not meet one of our ends, is simply a utter waste. (Planning to take over the world is a timely affair after all).

Also, if you really make an enemy of a INTJ, you will most likely have caused your own undoing. We would ruthlessly plan your demise in such a way that you would not even realize until the trap has been sprung, and it is too late at that point to do anything about it.

Like someone said earlier, we can basically see and think in future tense, and we are master system creators. Think of the INTJ as a master chess player that can see and plan for your move about 20 moves in advance.

Being a bully usually requires being a sensing type, because they do not fully appreciate the damage they are actually doing to themselves. INTJs do not make enemies, we destroy them. I'm sure you have seen the movies where the villian murders the parents and the child grows up to get revenge? The whole bloodline would be purged by a INTJ.

In fact. Nuke it from orbit, its the only way to be sure.

 

Hahah. It amused me to read that.

INTJ: We don't make enemies. We destroy them. With ruthless efficiency.

 

I've known one in the romantic sense. Wouldn't say he's a bully, but he certainly can't handle people who had opinions that didn't line up with his own. He never sought anyone out to attack though..

As far as planning anyone's demise, he was too busy doing a million things at once (finely tuning is brain body and career) to bother with revenge on anyone, no matter how they slighted him.

 

If you knock the lights out of an NT you had best be prepared to kill them, otherwise you've just made an enemy for life and that life is going to be curtailed very quickly as a result of the NTs actions.

Knock out an NT, and you've just ensured your own destruction

This.