Lisabeth
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- INFJ
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I'm and INFJ female and my friend is an INTJ male. We have know each other for close to four years. We have fought many battles...many. Some battles have been pretty extreme i.e. him telling me that he was going to turn everyone against me and make them hate me in are social circle so I would know what it feels like to be alone after rejecting his romantic advancements. Which he did successfully through manipulation, character assassination, outright lies and distortions. I of course could not justify fighting back due to morals, values, and consideration of him despite what he was doing. We go back and forth...friends, not friends..etc. I tend to forgive very easily. I try to see the good...although I tend to buy the lie a lot because it's hard for me to grasp the idea that there are people that lack a conscience and don't feel empathy. The kicker is he is fun to be around. I feel like I can truely be laid back and somewhat myself around him. So when it's good...he's just different...when it's bad..he's a psychotic sociopath without a soul. So what the hell is it with INTJs and their relationships with INFJ?