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OK, so I've just started a PhD in history, and getting to know the other students on my intake; we've socialised three times now, mainly with two others - a girl (26) and a guy (27).
However, I'm actually getting pretty exasperated by the way they have discussions, or rather, the way they take my points.
In essence, it seems like they can't fully engage with difficult ideas in what I would describe as a properly intellectual way - that is, considering some ideas as 'positions', not taking things personally, and engaging with these positions on logical grounds.
For instance, tonight we were talking about the work of some evolutionary biologists in the twentieth century who concluded that the basis of empathy was gene selection - individuals therefore feel more empathetic towards others who resemble themselves (genetically, ethnically, &c.), and the implications this had for the nation state, including the history of the twentieth century as one of massive ethnic disaggregation.
The guy got more and more uncomfortable until he eventually said he had to go, and that was the end of the evening.
I was really really surprised in a bemused way that they seemed to be taking this personally and it made them uncomfortable, as if they had sacred cows; things that ought not to be discussed.
Now, maybe I'm used to discussing things with more mature people, since this kind of discussion is usually enjoyable and engaging, and we come up with interesting 'solutions' and definitions of ethics, &c., but I got the sense that they didn't know how to properly debate.
Anyway, what do you think of this? It's got me annoyed.
Am I being antisocial bringing this challenging stuff up?
Are they intellectually immature?
What? Your thoughts? Experiences?
However, I'm actually getting pretty exasperated by the way they have discussions, or rather, the way they take my points.
In essence, it seems like they can't fully engage with difficult ideas in what I would describe as a properly intellectual way - that is, considering some ideas as 'positions', not taking things personally, and engaging with these positions on logical grounds.
For instance, tonight we were talking about the work of some evolutionary biologists in the twentieth century who concluded that the basis of empathy was gene selection - individuals therefore feel more empathetic towards others who resemble themselves (genetically, ethnically, &c.), and the implications this had for the nation state, including the history of the twentieth century as one of massive ethnic disaggregation.
The guy got more and more uncomfortable until he eventually said he had to go, and that was the end of the evening.
I was really really surprised in a bemused way that they seemed to be taking this personally and it made them uncomfortable, as if they had sacred cows; things that ought not to be discussed.
Now, maybe I'm used to discussing things with more mature people, since this kind of discussion is usually enjoyable and engaging, and we come up with interesting 'solutions' and definitions of ethics, &c., but I got the sense that they didn't know how to properly debate.
Anyway, what do you think of this? It's got me annoyed.
Am I being antisocial bringing this challenging stuff up?
Are they intellectually immature?
What? Your thoughts? Experiences?