Instant chemistry

[Gaze]

So, with what types or kinds of people do you find you have instant chemistry whether in terms of attraction, friendship, or general immediate click or connection.

 

[Korg]

Strong people. Fighters. Survivors. Dreamers who work hard. Intelligent people. iNtuitives. People who think for themselves and see through the bullshit.

Women who remind me of this:

 

[grt$5vb]

INs, always. Since the beginning of time.

 

[Korg]

INs, always. Since the beginning of time.

Yes, that too.

 

[894tt3h9]

Usually, but not always, I find that I have instant chemistry with NT types because our personalities complement each other. I would say INT's more than ENT's though. I like the comfort and the balance if they're healthy, well socialized and emotionally evolved.

 

[Billy]

Women who dont play head games
women who know what they want
someone who doesnt watch Housewives of LA
Any woman who likes Astronomy and Carl Sagan

 

[Whiskers]

Primarily, I'm often initially intrigued by what I perceive as frankness. It tends to promote conversation I'm actually interested in. That said, I don't put a great deal of stock in first impressions.

 

[CAptain]

I generally click with almost anyone I come in contact with for diverse reasons. (I rarely contact people btw lololol)

People that know how to act silly and not take things personally. In the long run I observe if they're balanced because being around 24/7 silly people can get pretty tiring. The same can be said about serious individuals. I can have chemistry with them too but if they don't know how to have some fun then I'm left feeling --> :/ . That's why I don't focus too much on initial feelings. I like to get to know people on a deeper level and see what they're REALLY made of.

 

[Sensiko]

 

[knight in battle]

Bonding-level chemistry (no questions asked):
ISFJ (very responsive, giddy)
INFP (most cases)
INTP (for a time)
ENTP
ESTJ
some INFJs (for a time)

Chemistry on a communication/interaction level:
INTJ (in general)
INFJ (for a time)
ISTP (very fun - never got around to asking their actual type)

Chemistry on an uncomfortable situational level:
ISTJ

 

[knight in battle]

(I rarely contact people btw lololol)

Wow... finally... someone who understands what it's like!

People that know how to act silly and not take things personally. In the long run I observe if they're balanced because being around 24/7 silly people can get pretty tiring. The same can be said about serious individuals. I can have chemistry with them too but if they don't know how to have some fun then I'm left feeling --> :/ . That's why I don't focus too much on initial feelings. I like to get to know people on a deeper level and see what they're REALLY made of.

Yeah, same here, I need a balance of silliness and seriousness. People who judge me for having silly fun.... ick. Yes, if someone is tolerable and interesting, I'll stick around and take time to discover them.

 

[technics]

Women from Poland and Russia

 

[whytiger]

Charmingly nerdy, wiggly people.

 

[Gaze]

Chemistry usually happens with someone who is calm, open, and easy going with a strong sense of self while being very accepting. Someone who doesn't require you to be impressive because they already get a sense of who you are.

 

[Rcs6r]

Strong people. Fighters. Survivors. Dreamers who work hard. Intelligent people. iNtuitives. People who think for themselves and see through the bullshit.

Women who remind me of this:

Are they.... are they behind the cat? I don't see them!


Women who are down to earth I suppose. They take seriously what needs to be taken seriously and laugh at the BS; lightheartedness. Outgoing, eclectic, imaginative, willing to try new things, see the world, as much as I would. Someone I could travel the world with basically.