In all fairness, there's another factor to my INFJ rage. Being an INFJ male, I stand in testimony that yes, INFJ attract narcissist more than any other empath. In western society we are taught two major variables to psychology: IQ levels and an emotion spectrum. However, there's a third variable that's stronger, lightning quick, more explosive than emotions, that's instincts. Carl Jung decoded instincts in mythology, gods and goddesses are the male and female's respected instincts. A male has all the God's in mythology (say, Greek mythology since our language is based mostly on Greek root words) in his psychology with his IQ and emotional spectrum.This only happened to me once. After the betrayal, it felt like a psychological white blood cell attacking a covert malignant narcisst invader to protect myself from any future harm. But leading up to it, I was mirroring her behavior whether it was real or fake to try and provocate me, I wanted her to see her reactions from her games or her lack of empathy for herself...it only escalated the situation. I think it was my subconscious protecting me from my conscious mind that was unwilling to accept I was dealing with a high functioning psychopathy.
Until she did her grand finale, premeditated discard, behind my back smear campaign all the while being sweet and smiling in person... that was a major betrayal to our 4 years of friendship and closeness that my INFJ rage emerged in part to tell her that I noticed everything and in another part to protect myself from further and future psychological and emotional abuse.
It's not what I am or like to be as an INFJ, but my depth of subconscious resources emerging to protect me from abuse that I inadvertently fell into slowly over the years until her mask came off permanently that trigger me. I even surprised myself, I felt I needed to purge her assholery from my system. I know INFJ have a hard time leaving toxic relationship but man, did I give it to her.
Cluster B, most notably dark triad women specialize in emasculating their male targets, so my INFJ masculinity was surgically missle struck by my psychopathic ex girlfriend. Subconscious or instinctual circuits were triggered, and augmented by my INFJ dissection of her character, was a perfect storm when my Aries circuit went on the attack. Aries is about shock and awe, my INFJ is about core issue missle locking on her to put a stake thru her undead heart. Yikes!
That's a 0.05% INFJ Rage if anyone cares for that insight.